Why do we look for love in all the wrong places?

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A friend of mine just started dateing this woman. They've know one another for 5 years, but they litteraly just started dateing. Already, she's telling him that she's going to re-locate to where he lives and makeing all these big plans. I advise him that they are moveing way too fast and he should be careful and not put his already fragile heart on the line. He gives me all these reasons why he thinks it's okay, and I'm just too hard on the girls he meets. So she dissapears on him all day yesturday and he was so upset, he had an anxiety attack, I gave him my condolances and didn't say I told you so once. Today the girl calls him up and says, "I was abducted and put in a trunk for 5 hours and my house was robbed, and the police say they won't do anything, even though I know who did it, so I came to the library to talk to you, oh and by the way they stole my cell phone too, but I'll call you when I get home." Needless to say she never called. Now he's all upset and I advised him to give her the benefit of the dought, but he says he feels like she's lieing. I do too but I didn't say anything. What do you think, do you think she's lieing or do you feel she's telling the truth. Do you think what I think, that there is someone else she's trying to hide him from. Like a husband or a bf?