Hypothetical situation...

@Dan_ul (858)
Romania
June 23, 2007 6:19am CST
Suppose we are part of an Indian community in America... we don't speak English to well and we have a small kid... we are keen on conserving our original tradition unaltered... but being in America, well thats really an issue... would you learn your kid to speak English at home?... I mean would you accept your kid to speak English at home?
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@shemah (840)
• Malaysia
23 Jun 07
Well, i believe anyone who has moved/migrated to a different country is to try to find a better living.. so i think it's only right that you do teach your children the language in whatever country you are planning to live in. It will really help the children to mix with others and not feel left out. There's nothing wrong learning a language as it won't detach yourself from your own culture. So i believe there is really nothing wrong with that.
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@Dan_ul (858)
• Romania
23 Jun 07
yes migration is one of the possibility... but together with the movement you take also something from home, some traditions... that are hard to let them go... right? and not always you leave you country for a better life... there can be other issues that can determine one to live his countries...
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@deebomb (15304)
• United States
25 Jun 07
Let me see if I get this right. You are an Amreican Indian living in the middle of America Right, on say a reservation? Am I getting the picture right? Well afer so many generations of a tribe interactioning with the white man the family will be speaking American because the parents and grandparents will have gone to the white man's school. The real problem will be reversed and you might want your child to learn the native language so it won't die out. So then you would be takng the child to special center where just the native language would be spoken or you know your native language and speak it at home along with the American langiuage so the child will be learning speak two languages.
@deebomb (15304)
• United States
28 Jun 07
I appoligize for misunderstanding I thought you were talking about American Indians
@Dan_ul (858)
• Romania
28 Jun 07
I sad Indian... not Amerindian... and I also sad "Hypothetical situation..."... so I could also be a Mexican, or Hungarian:)...
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@rhinoboy (2129)
25 Jun 07
Children learn languages very quickly indeed. When you think of it, they learn their native language completely from scratch in under 2 years! When it's an issua of culture, I think children can be taught to respect values while accepting modern influences. I know a couple where the wife is deaf but the husband and daughter hear perfectly. The dad talks to his daughter in sign even when the mother is not there, just because it feels natural.
@Dan_ul (858)
• Romania
28 Jun 07
I think you're right kids do learn pretty fast... thanks
@vonne28th (1494)
• Philippines
23 Jun 07
For me "yes" it is nice that our children would learn to speak or use other traditions and dialects. Acquiring a second language like English is not difficult for a child to learn. We cannot tell them not to learn or speak English at home while they are studying in an English school. I've learned that children who learned or using a second language at home score higher on verbal standardized test conducted in English. They also perform better in math and logic skills,more creative and better solving complex problems than children with just one language.
@Dan_ul (858)
• Romania
28 Jun 07
the Hypothetical situation... was referring to little kids... cos the big kids who go to school are kind of a "lost cause"... thanks for the response
@tredale (1309)
• Australia
23 Jun 07
I would let my child learn the native language it cant hurt. The old saying when in Rome do a do as the Romands do. I think that language is a barrier naturally if my child could learn it Id let them.
@Dan_ul (858)
• Romania
23 Jun 07
well it's less about let him learn a foreign language... it's about talking in that language at home, so that he can learn... and also, as a conservative parent, teach him also your native language... sometimes I think that that could be confusing for the little kid... right?
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@tredale (1309)
• Australia
23 Jun 07
I think children learn faster than adults and would be able to pick up both languages quite fine. I have a friend who is chinese and can speak fluent in both languages and has taught both her parents. So yes I think its possible.