be honest, worst trait you have?

Philippines
June 24, 2007 6:22am CST
can you honestly post here your worst trait that you fear could scare people?.. just a thought.. For me, my worst trait are.. 1.I am self pity person.. ( they thought that I'm a optimistic person and always happy but deep inside I have weak personality.. i easily get sad..) 2.I am a too proud.. ( but deep inside i feel im so small... hehe.. ) 3. I am fake.. ( but I wanted to be real...) 4.moody... =( But i really want to change... I can say that by the help of God i will change.. ^_ how abou you?..
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@student7 (1002)
• United States
24 Jun 07
1. Moody (only certain times of the month when I want to rip heads off any stupid people.) 2. Lazy (I get real tired and just don't want to do it. It gets me in trouble with the husband. Only certain times.) 3. Procrastinator (I guess it is a nicer way of saying lazy) I am working on that, but it is hard when the mood hits to just scream at the noodle head in front of you to pay attention and finish the task he/she started. It all takes time though.
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• Philippines
24 Jun 07
uhm.. frien.. just remeber this one.. we only have one life here in this earth.. and life is very very short...
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@AmbiePam (85484)
• United States
24 Jun 07
Oh yeah, procrastination. I should have included that in my reply.
• United States
25 Jun 07
Oh wow I think a huge number of people procrastinate(especially college students).
@meljessxena (2315)
• Australia
24 Jun 07
i would have to say moody and lazy are the my worst traits
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• Philippines
25 Jun 07
honestly, i'm a nagger, and i really don't like it, but i can't help it. i'm really trying my best to change it... please help...
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• Philippines
2 Jul 07
yeah, you're right. thanks alot for a very helpful advice.. see you around!
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• Philippines
26 Jun 07
uhmm.. I think the best way you can do is when you think that you feel you're gonna nag because you're really get mad.. just inhale and exhale then count one to ten.. then just dont mind them.. hehe.. sometimes I do that.. and it's very effective.. ^_ and just keep this in your mind.. what good things can you get from nagging?.. you're just making it hard for you.. and the problem can't be solve by nagging.. ^_ right?
@add_im (2712)
• Philippines
24 Jun 07
The worst traits of my personality are sometimes i'm being such a 'moody' buddy and most often people will easily get any chances to abuse my kindness because of my 'over-patience' to them.
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@donsky14 (5947)
• Philippines
24 Jun 07
i'm really moody. I easily get jealous - the usual reason why me and my boyfriend fights. I'm not that confident about myself. trying to change as well.
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@donsky14 (5947)
• Philippines
25 Jun 07
it does...it does destroy relationships. thats why it should really be avoided. Or if it can't be avoided...just try not showing it too much. hehe
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• Philippines
24 Jun 07
uhmm I'm like that also friend.. eventhough i dont have a boyfriend yet.. I easily get jealous if my guy friend is with somebody.. I'm a selfish.. But that jealousy can destroy the good relationship.. and maybe us..
@yuanchang (474)
• Philippines
24 Jun 07
well i guess my worst trait might not scare people. my worst trait is being lazy. all my life this is my number one dilemma. i am having hard time to change my ways in being just a happy-go-lucky-laid-back-lazy-bum that i am. i do not know why i can't keep myself busy in doing productive things. i wish i can change myself for the better.
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• Philippines
26 Jun 07
there's no hard for those who are willing to change.. ^_ when i feel lazy i'll just think the quote.. Life is very very short... ^_^
• Philippines
26 Jun 07
yeah life is so short and i have to keep that in mind to really go on and change. have a good one:)
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@avs189 (1030)
• India
24 Jun 07
Too many to mention i can say ,like negative minded ,lazy and liar that is fake like you ...i try to be real but this world always lands me up in the fake place..hoping to overcome my negatives to be a nice individual.
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• Philippines
26 Jun 07
yeah.. you're right.. it's really hard..
@AmbiePam (85484)
• United States
24 Jun 07
That's pretty brave to get your bad traits out in the open. Since you were so open, I guess I can be as well. : ) I can be very critical of the way people do things, thinking my way is better. I have a hard time handling difficult situations without worrying. I don't trust people easliy and doubt people who are honestly telling me the truth. I often act without thinking first. I'm sure there are more, but I don't want to think too hard. My limited self-esteem can't take it. LOL
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• Philippines
26 Jun 07
yeah.. hehe.. when you say the bad traits of yours.. i can say that what I've saud earlier is not all I realize that there's more bad traits i have.. and just like what you say... our self estem can't take it.. ^_^
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@urbangirl (1456)
• Australia
24 Jun 07
I tend to overcomit myself and run myself down.When I have low energy, I procrastinate a lot and nothing and no-one can get me to stir until I have a good break.
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• Philippines
24 Jun 07
uhmm i want this also say it to you.. life is very very very short friend.. dont waste your time.. ^_^
@argie713 (1809)
• Philippines
24 Jun 07
My worst trait is that I'm a bit lazy to do stuff. All I wanted to do was to sit in front of the computer and surf the net forever. I'm also proud but not that much, it's ok to have a little pride in yourself.
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• Philippines
24 Jun 07
yeah.. you're right.. ^_ hehe.. surfing the net forever? what if you will lost you're hand?... what will yo do.. hehe.. pero joke lang.. ^_^
• Philippines
24 Jun 07
hot headed and self centered but it is not as always
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• Philippines
24 Jun 07
yeah.. it's ok.. were just human being.. ^_
@raychill (6525)
• United States
24 Jun 07
My worst trait is that I mostly don't choose to use Tact. I'm honest and though honesty is good, it should be spoken with tact which I don't use often.
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• Philippines
24 Jun 07
were just a human being.. theres no wrong about being honest..
@raychill (6525)
• United States
24 Jun 07
If i thought being honest was wrong I wouldn't be honest. Tact...is the key.
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@migenKC (792)
• Philippines
24 Jun 07
wow... its easy to post it here but hard to show the real feeling to people... "i am very weak" --- and there are only two people who knows my weaknesses... its ME and my BOSS
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• Philippines
24 Jun 07
yeah.. that's life.. ^_ hehe.. I do understand you.. that's normal to us.. but we have the authority to change our rong attitude and overcome it.. you're right when you say theres no such thing as perfect.. ^_
• Philippines
24 Jun 07
To be honest... What i don't like about myself is being able to see evil spirits all the time... I mean I smoke a lot, I drink occasionally but i think that is okay considering I'm a guy who acts, walks, thinks, speaks and feel 'astig'... If you don't really feel good about yourself being so weak-hearted then maybe you should start realizing that there is more to life than just pretending... Count your blessings and not your misfortunes, Little Sister... Best Wishes, -The King of Reason and The Leader of None-
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• Philippines
26 Jun 07
^_ yeah.. tnx..
• India
25 Jun 07
well, I like to see if it gets little better by writing down my worst trait. Firstly, I get angry very fast. Secondly, I talk a lot. thirdly, think a lot unnecessarily and am finnicky about anything.
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@mrkbrynt (159)
• Philippines
24 Jun 07
me.... big eater.... i eat a lot...... and if i have money.... ill become a 1 day millionaire... waste every peso i have......
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• Philippines
24 Jun 07
uhmm that's bad.. friend.. ^_ you better give that to the who in need. hehe..
@khaezi (1001)
• Philippines
25 Jun 07
Worst traits that i have are following..being moody, pessimistic, and i get depressed all the time
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• United States
25 Jun 07
my worst trait is i have low self esteem. no matter what other's tell me i. i don't think very highly of my self. i question my abilty to be more then i am part of me know i can do it other part of me say i can't. but i am working on it and i know threw christ all things are possible
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@kerryhu (13)
• China
25 Jun 07
1.unconfident. i always doubt that i can achieve something. 2.daydreamer. i dream of many perfect but i am not a doer. 3.moody. i am easily affected by the outside and i can't help it.
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• Philippines
25 Jun 07
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