do you want to raise your child by yourself or by your parents?

Before i got married my husband and i made an agreement that if i got pregnant and have a child i dont go to work anymore, and this happen too. When i got pregnant i resigned to my previous job and stayed at home till i gave birth to our son, i enjoy doing that so, taking care of my son, it is much better that the parent are the one to look after their children, but when my son entered her pre school i felt so bored staying at home and waiting for my son to come, so i talked to my husband if i can work again and he agreed. Now we hired a nanny for our son to take care of him and my brother is in our house to look after him also. The idea of raising children to their grandparents is not bad also.

I want to raise my daughter with my fiance. I don't think my daughter should be left to someone else to raise. Luckily my fiance makes enough money so that I can be a stay at home mom and devote my time to taking care of our daughter and home. I do want our parents to be big parts of our daughters life. But I don't want them raising her.

I don't want to miss the thrill of raising children in my life. It is part and parcel of life. One should not miss it. Children wants love and affection of parents and that is possible only when you are with them.