Be A Real Man

no, the more stuff you do for your wife..the more she wants you to do..i know a guy who cooks like a chef..is a handyman around the house..he is always doing "home improvement jobs"..waits on his wife hand and foot and she still treats him like the "village idiot"..so much for doing stuff for the little women I let my wife know she is not my boss..i am the boss of me.. i say this quietly..in another room..but in front of her i say yes dear

It really depends on the people involved and what compromises you are both willing to make. I know many couples who want to spend all their time together. Once children factor in, there is generally less free time all around so it becomes much harder to have outside friends and activities. That is not to say that it is not possible by any means. But really, you have to sit down as a couple and have a long talk about your time and what compromises you are willing to make to have your own "me time" or time with the guys or girls. As far as the game goes, women traditionally have used this time to shop, or go out with the girls. Men will also usually get together with the guys and watch the game together. Really it's all about compromise and time management. If one or both of you are very clingy and wants to dominate the others free time than it will be tough to do all things you talk about.