Some of u may know from my previous posts...

well i cant respect someone who doesn't respect me, i don't care who she is, she's his mom but that doesn't automatically mean that everyone has to respect her for that! she's done nothing in his life to prove she deserves that kind of respect, she's a selfish greedy woman who only cares about herself and her ex. the only problem i think it might create in mine and my hubbys relationship is when she gets ill or passes he might regret all the things he said or allowed me to say about his mom! i do understand wut u're saying tho, people automatically think that mother in laws deserve respect since they created our hubby's but not that mom, if u knew her u'd agree, everything she did in her life was to benefit her relationship with her ex (her kids dad) in the end it effected the way my hubby and his bros were raised! basically in a broken home!

Iunderstand how MG feels really i do I to have a MIL from he** but im just saying that if she makes her husband to put her out it could cause problems later in life for her, as her husband could have hard feelings to his wife for having to put his mother out. Also im wondering what is the husbands take and feelings about all this.

I understand how MgMagana feels, My husband and i lived with his Mom and Dad when we were first together and it just was not a good idea. I came to realize how close him and his Mom were and how much that could affect our relationship. But I was hoping he would change, he made all kinds of promises about moving wherever I wanted and starting our life together. Well that never happened, he says it was because of his job, well he's a mechanic, they can get a job in just about any town, I mean look at all the different places you can work if you are a mechanic. It was because his Mommy couldn't stand him leaving. So here we are still living really close to everyone in his family and I hate living here and unfortunately there's alot of resentment because of it. One thing my husband knew is if he ever asked me if she could move in with us, it would be a flat out "No". I would divorce him, if he ever told me "too bad it's going to happen." I have to be happy also. I hope everything works out fot Mgmagana

yeah she can go to her parents house, that's where she was planning on going to in august.

Okay well then she will have to leave now!LOL Dont think about it and you shouldnt be worrying she is making you uneasy in your own house and thats not right. Be strong.

well good luck with getting ur new home! i think that's something i could say, b/c it's true, the longer we stay living together, the worse our relationship will become.

wow, that's interesting to know about japanese culture! wow, that is def. an upside with the built in babysitter. i know wut u mean about two women living with eachother. yeah, i feel like telling my m-i-law to shut her piehole! he he!