When is the right time to get married?

June 25, 2007 3:45pm CST
Hey, I have always wondered when the right time is to "pop the question" and how to do so in a way that will catch the other person completely off guard. Marriage has been on my mind for a little while now and I have had a same girlfriend for about 3 years, we love and care about eachother, and I am starting to get some hints from her that maybe I should be thinking more about this subject. So my question is, when do you think the right time is to get engaged? Should I play it safe and wait until I am finished university, or should school not affect my decision? What are some suggestions that could help me figure out this dilemma and how could I propose to her so that she is completely blown away. Help me out lol!
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@williamjisir (22900)
• China
25 Jun 07
I think it is better to get engaged when you have graduated from university so that your study won't be influnced much from talking about love. If you love each other, time is not a big deal. As to the right time to get married, I think that the best time is when you have a got a stable job and have got enough earnings for your marriage. This way you won't go into debt that much, although maybe you will be into some debt for the marriage.
• India
25 Jun 07
it is not the age as i see we should judge by that it is the time to get married ,if you are mentally prepared to share the responsibilty you are ready to get married but this decision making power you have only when you are at least 18 years older,so minimum age should be 18 but maximum depends on your mental acceptance