Have you ever been the third party, the wrecker, the other woman?

Can being labeled as a homewrecker count? I remember when I was in my early 20's, I think just out of college, when I had my first celphone unit. During the craze of SMS I had one texter friend who introduced himself to be single. Being the gullible girl that I was then, I remember we got close via text messages and phone calls. It progressed to him visiting me at my rented place. The relationship never went further since I had a bad feeling about it. I felt something was not right. So decided to keep my distance. During that time, I was already making plans of going to Manila for work and to be totally independent. So I was busy going to job interviews. When I got back from another interview, I was surprised to have some visitors looking for me. There were two of them, they were total strangers to me. But when we talked, I found out that one of them is the mother of my textmate. Also, I was informed that he was already married and that I should not continue my association with him lest I will become a homewrecker. OMG! I could not believe what I heard, who, me? A homewrecker? LOL! How could that have happened? Anyway, I just laughed it off and told them that there was nothing serious with us. That our "relationship" was superficial.

I was trapped by woman who acted tp me as if she loved me so much but I realised some sort of unnatural behaviour while talking to her. Subsequently i.e. after 2 months time of our relationship, one day I found her with another man. Next time I told her on the face I did not want to have any relationship with her. Other than talking we had no other relationship. Of course, I did not love her but a little inclination towards marrying her existed in me.

nope. not my cup of tea. i beleive in the saying that ddont do to others waht you dont want them to do againts u

Nope... And I never dreamed to be. I myself understand the fact that nobody wants to play in that situation... just the same as nobody wants to be a killer, a rapist and a thief... but whatever the reason we have... it cannot justify what we have done and the decisions we're making. If what we did... is to save our life and the life of the people we love then...we will be judge in different manner... But being a home wrecker is a different thing. The fact that you are inlove with a married man/woman...and a man/woman with a responsibility is enough to make you think twice. And you can never be proud of it... How can you be proud to say that you are the other man/woman?

Of course not. I can't afford to do it and I don't want to ruin other's life...Oh my!...