What is your desired son-in-law or daughter-in-low?

@magica (3710)
Bulgaria
June 26, 2007 2:50pm CST
For all of u, who have own children:i have seen here a lot of discussion how will you react if your parents arrange your marriage. But i havent seen any discussion about the son and daughter-in low what you, dear parents, want for your child? What are your thoughts about it? Will you accept completely the choice of your child even when this choice is completely different then yours? And what are the criterias you have? What do you approve or disapprove in the partner of your child?
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3 responses
• Philippines
8 Jul 07
I was laughing at the thought. Really...My son is only 13 but I was already thinking about my future daughter in law. I just want someone who will love my son and wont treat me as a rival to his love. It's hard to think of expectations as no one can be the perfect son or daughter in law.
@zandi458 (27948)
• Malaysia
28 Jun 07
I do not care much about who my son will give me as a daughter in law. As long as he is happy with her and capable of producing my grandchildren.
@laydee (12811)
• Philippines
28 Jun 07
Though there are still arranged marriage these days, I don't believe on them anymore. Kids are not like they are used to few years back. At the same time environment has changed. So regardless if you force them to marry someone, after a few years they would still either divorce or find someone else. I think for this generation, it's time that parents keep their hands off their kids when it comes to relationships. They could guide them, but they should never expect for things to go as they would want them to be.