My Daughters Dilema
By sharon_
@sharon_ (1169)
United States
June 27, 2007 8:45pm CST
What should she do...? She has been dating a man for about a month now who suppossibly had broken up with his girlfriend of 2 1/2 yrs.He is a very kind and thoughtful man.He also has a 6 yr. old son. The problem is that some of her things are still over his house and half the time so is she! He says he can't stand her, but she has no place to go. Also,he says he has to think about his son(who lives with his mother). My daughter has stayed several nights with him and he has told her that he loves her.What is a girl to do??? HELP!
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@eashoor (307)
• Canada
28 Jun 07
Sharon,
A man sometimes needs to make tough decisions. I have not been in the same situation but in many similar ones.
The other woman can and should be 1 of 2 things: 1- In his life 2- out of his life.
The fact that he has a child is no excuse for another woman (even if she is the mom) to Occupy his residence. Once separated they should not meet or communicate unless it has something to do with the child period.
I would strongly advise your daughter to put her emotions aside and simply give him an ultimatum. His true colors will appear then.
Sorry if this is hard to grasp kind of advice but if she doesnt step on her heart now, unfortuantely he and his X may step on it later.
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@jess368 (3368)
• United States
28 Jun 07
When the ex girlfriend is gone, then they can pursue a relationship. Untill this happens there will only be problems with in the relationship. Obviously f the ex is still that involved in his life he is not ready for a new commitment.
I dont know who would be ok with this situation. It screams issues!
