Ex Girlfriends

@kr1stee (104)
United States
October 24, 2006 3:47pm CST
Do you think a guy can only be friends with an ex girlfriend?
7 responses
• Malaysia
13 Apr 07
Some guys take it easy and carry out with a great friendship, or maybe a hello-friend. Some guy got really hurt in the broken relationship, and they had forced themself to erase all the memory with this ex-gf until they don't recognise their ex-gf.
@breepeace (3014)
• Canada
19 Mar 07
I think so. My boyfriend isn't friends with any of his exes, but I am friends with a lot of mine, one of whom I consider one of my oldest and dearest friends. But then our breakup was only due to the circumstances (he was moving for school) and after we did, I realized that the biggest thing I valued about him was his friendship. This was 5 years ago. There is literally no spark between the 2 of us. I've hooked him up with a few girls I knew since and it didn't bother me in the least seeing them together.
@kataztrophy (1836)
• United States
31 Oct 06
I have a ex girlfriend that I consider to be a good friend.
@prue187 (517)
• United States
31 Oct 06
Not really, although you can be friends after a split or break-up there's still a possibility that old feeling could come back and then they might decide to give it another shot. on the other hand there are relationship that went through ugly break-up and maybe it's just hard for both of them to become friends. My first marriage was a mess and so was my ex i could not befriend him i just don't feel like it and i kinda hate his guts. some of my ex boyfriend are still one of my good friends but both of our parties are married to great people.
@ladylety (344)
• United States
31 Oct 06
fire  - flames
Nope. Where theres smoke there was once a fire...
31 Oct 06
i dont think a guy can be friends with an x, especially if he has some feeling for her. it aint that nice to have an x come to you to show off her new boyfiend.
• United States
31 Oct 06
Flowers - These are the flowers he gave me in the beginning of our relationship!  They are the most beautiful flowers I've ever seen in my entire life!
I'd say yes & no. My boyfriend is still friends with one of his exes - they've known eachother for a long time. But at the same time, he's not friends with his 2 other exes. We had some issues in the beginning of our relationship & I told him that if he wanted a future with me, things would have to change. Luckily we both took a chance on eachother & we've been happy ever since. I'm going to see him for Thanksgiving & then he'll be home for Christmas. We love eachother completely!