Personality

United States
October 24, 2006 4:26pm CST
Can you fall in love with someone just because of their personality, even if they aren't physically atractive to you
21 responses
• United States
27 Oct 06
I totally say yes. I think you become friends with someone before you actually fall in love with them. What's inside can make and how they act and treat you can make them look better on the outside. A guy with a terrible personality can be nice looking until you actually get to know him.
@sunrisekn (1466)
• United States
27 Oct 06
I was going to say exactly that......I totally agree with you...
• United States
18 Nov 06
I agree, and would like to add that the looks will fade with age, but the personality and character will stay.
@pookie92 (1714)
• United States
20 Nov 06
I think you can. Granted, the physical attraction is the first thing that usually attracts people, but a lot of people end up marrying a friend that they have know for a long time. Just never seen in a certain light before. Marrying your friend is better than marrying a flash of romantic attraction. It will last longer with a true friend, the romance cools..........
• United States
20 Nov 06
I completely agree with you My husband and i where friends b4 we ever hooked up
@kokopelli (4842)
• United States
18 Nov 06
absolutely, that's why i picked my husband :) his personality is great and just matches mine.
• United States
18 Nov 06
thank you
@macubx (11414)
• Philippines
18 Nov 06
yes, i guess love is blind for me..
• United States
18 Nov 06
thank you
@wyykidd (1460)
• Singapore
18 Nov 06
I don't deny that it helps if the person looks attractive as well. But if it's only on the outside, I think you will soon have enough of the true colours and not find him/her attractive anymore...
• United States
18 Nov 06
well after all it is like judging a book by its cover but when you look deeper inside you find something even better or totaly hidious
@Crilli (2890)
• Italy
18 Nov 06
yes, phusical atraction can end if there are nothing else, while personality is what really hit you of a person
• United States
18 Nov 06
thank u
@icequeen (2840)
• Canada
20 Nov 06
Yes....I think that is quite possible. It has happened to me in the past. Unfortunately, the relationships didn't work out in the end...but I think it can happen...as they say, Looks aren't everything...and I think that is true...
@askshivam (478)
• India
18 Nov 06
well can't say... bec u get first impression from ur looks but if get a chance to know somone then u might stat liking her/him
18 Nov 06
Looks aren't everything,personality is.You can tell a lot by the personality. My husband is very comical and quite sarcastic at times,but only when he thinks it's needed. He may not be to someone else's liking,but i'm the one who fell for him.
• Singapore
18 Nov 06
peter n me - peter n me
Of course, where love is concerned..looks does not matter at all. My bf may not be the best looking person around, but i love him so much that i only have eyes for him, he's the best and the most good looking man for me!
• United States
18 Nov 06
thank you
• United States
20 Nov 06
yes I can
@twopence (310)
• France
20 Nov 06
Of course, that's what I dit 37 years ago and it still works. Moreover I find him very attractive now.
• United States
18 Nov 06
i'd like to think so
• United States
18 Nov 06
thank u
@visualyze (180)
• United States
18 Nov 06
I am not shallow, but physical attraction is part of the package. Without a personality, a relationship can't build either. Love involves both elements.
@loved1 (5328)
• United States
18 Nov 06
Absolutely. Haven't you ever met someone really good looking and then after you talk to him he turns out to be a jerk? Suddenly he is not that cute anymore.
• United States
18 Nov 06
most definately.
@del251nyu (212)
• United States
18 Nov 06
It is possible for someone to fall for another based on their personality, but I think that if the person is really unattractive to you, the best personality wouldn't matter. This is just my opinion!!!
• United States
18 Nov 06
definatly yes! theres alot of georgeous #$#$holes out there
• Nigeria
18 Nov 06
Personality and physical attractions are the parameters I would use.
@kiiizu (1901)
• Estonia
18 Nov 06
I believe it is possible. Actually, it happened to myself once... He was a very special man!