What can we parents do to help our children reach their potential in school?

@lynboobsy11 (11343)
Philippines
June 28, 2007 12:13pm CST
I'm a mother of two girls, my eldest is on her 1st yearof college in braodcasting. My youngest is on her 5th grade in school. And being a mother, thats why I preferred to be a full time mother to them as much as possible I want to be part of their daily studies and go after them in any lessons they don't understand in school. I true believe teacher has the big role in life of a students they are their mother/father in school. To teach them and giude them to be professional someday...But a parents too has a role to reach their potential in school. How about you parents out there what dod you do to help your children to reach their potential in school???
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10 responses
• Philippines
14 Jul 07
hi lynn!that's what i wanted to do when i'l have my own child. I think giving time and attention is really important. In this way, we could notuce our child's potentials and help them at the same time...
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@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
14 Jul 07
Yeas I agree with you also, thanks for sharing yammydudes, have a nice day...
@minhtan (87)
• Vietnam
29 Jun 07
Actually, parents can hardly do anything in this field. They can only help their children at the beginning. Parents have to teach their kids the patience, curiousness, ability to deduce,..After several years, they just guide their children to maintain those things. That's all. Their children have to help yourselves, no one can do that for them.
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@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
14 Jul 07
Yeah your right and I do agree with you, as long as we give them the right knowledge they must continue it greatly... Thanks, have a nice day....
@easy888 (10405)
• Australia
28 Jun 07
Hello,lynboobsy11,i think every children will have their own potentials,they should have something they really good at doing,may be it is a good thing to let them try to do different things and develop more interests so that they can find their strengths and utilize their potentials in what they are good at. Teachers is also important in guarding the children to find their potentials,they should encourage students to have a balanced growth rather than just focus on acadamic.
@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
29 Jun 07
Yeah I agree with you, we must encourage them in what potentials they have. Thanks,have a nice day...
@wachit14 (3595)
• United States
28 Jun 07
My children have both received private tutoring when necessary. School is very hard, especially when they are in high school and they need to get individual attention in certain subjects. I am lucky enough to offer my children the option of having a private tutor, but we have also used private educational support as well.
@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
29 Jun 07
Private tutoring here in myplace is too expensive thats why I manage to do so even if sometimes It's hard for me coz my daughters won't listen. Thanks,have a nice day...
• Philippines
28 Jun 07
me and my wife did the same thing like what yo've done to your kids,i've got only 2 kids same as yours my son is on the 3rd level in high school and my dauther is in 5th grade too. actually my wife is a teacher of my son in their school so she's role in to one,a mother and a teacher.so far we dont have much any problem to guide them and watch them since my wife is a fulltime guard of my son in school.they know how we really look after them we also teach them to set their own goal to pursue their dreams.
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@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
29 Jun 07
It's nice to have a wife and a teacher to your children like what you said you don't have problems in their studies. Thanks for sharing... have a nice day...
@xmichx (109)
• Philippines
22 Jul 07
Well I'm not yet a mother but my mom use to send me to private tutoring when I was in grade school and it seems to work. She also give me small gifts as a reward for earning a big grade. And we earn honors she will give us big rewards like buying us a new phone or giving us the shopping money we need to buy the cool shirt at the mall. Try this it did work out on me and my sibblings. You might think that it won't work with your college daughter but it will coz I'm a college student myself.
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@ssh123 (31073)
• India
27 Jul 07
If the children are above 10 years, then you can tell them plainly that school is the place where on can learn maximum and by getting highest marks, future education is easy. Also ensure that you do not give them any work at home, let them play well, avoid watching TV for more than 1 hour, assist in home work if it is difficult (no spoon feeding), and try to tell them to understand the subject and then write the answer instead of by-heart the topic where they miss words and sentences while answering. Above all, ensure they go to school leaving all the problems at home. Make school going an enjoyable place. Do not put pressure to perform at a level by comparing her classmates. Never do that. These are the few tips which we follow. It worked well for us.
@ssh123 (31073)
• India
28 Jul 07
Yesterday there was a tv serial on the same topic in local language. Almost the same suggestions were discussed with one key word. Encouragement should always be there and positive thinking by parents, so that the child can pick up the signals from our day to day talk.
@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
28 Jul 07
Yeah thats right, encouragement one's child really can boost their potential in any aspect of their life.
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@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
27 Jul 07
I agree with you about that. Thanks, have a nice day...
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@coolmailraj (2460)
• India
27 Jul 07
Hi. i am not a parent and not at all a school going child any more, but what i feel is that the most important thing for a child at the age when he or she starts going to school is the company of the parents or their elder brother and sister. You should yourself go to pick your ward to school and to drop him to the school and when your child tells you something about what happened in the school, listen to him and give some kind of reaction to it.
@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
27 Jul 07
Thanks, for sharing have a nice day..
@laridbz (1280)
• China
26 Jul 07
I don't have children (at least no yet), but I pretty much know what I'll do to help them when they're at school. I'll do my best to make them enjoy reading. Reading anything. Books, magazines, newspapers, comic books... It will certainly help them to reach their potential in school. Of course, if there's an specific subject they don't understand, we'll work on that. But I think reading will help them with all subjects at once.
@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
26 Jul 07
Thats nice atleast now you are practicing to be a good mom. thanks, have a nice day...
@jcj_111776 (3216)
• Philippines
26 Jul 07
First and foremost, we parents should always be proud with whatever accomplishments our children can achieve in school. That is a major booster for them, that they can feel that they are making us happy and proud. As for my son who's in preschool, everytime he has assignments, I guide him in answering those homeworks. I never answer it myself because I'm not helping my son in that way. It will be only teaching him how to be so dependent on Mommy. I always encourage him to think for himself and make a judgment of his own. From what I've experienced so far in adjusting to my son's school activities, it's not easy to be your kid's "extension" teacher. I have to be honest though, that my patience had been thoroughly tested especially when my son doesn't want to review his lessons. But in order to help our kids reach their greatest potential, we parents should always maintain our support and understanding. And to never ever forget that even a small accomplishment that our child can do is a very big thing already. By showing them that we are very proud for that accomplishment can greatly level up their confidence and make them more excited to do more.
@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
26 Jul 07
Yeah your right even little thing they done must be accomplished so that they gain more confidence. And even now with my 16 and 9 years old daughter they have self confidence and brave to face the reality of life.
• Philippines
27 Jul 07
It really helps a child when even the small things that he had accomplished at school is greatly appreciated by his parents. It only means that if he can make his parents proud of him for such small deeds, they they can be more proud if he can do much bigger ones. Thus, boosting their confidence and determination. Kids want to do things that can make their parents happy and appreciate them for it.