if you had no chance on getting caught, would you cheat on your partner?

Philippines
June 29, 2007 9:21am CST
it may sound bad but yeah . . i don't have the cahnce in all literwally speaking. and im still young and im not that serious with any guys for the fact that theres none thats good out ther maybe someday . . but would you ever do it?! whether it may be a guy or a girl?
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@lecanis (16647)
• Murfreesboro, Tennessee
29 Jun 07
I would never cheat on my husband, even if there was no chance of getting caught. I think the guilt would kill me. Besides which, he has been very wonderful to me and doesn't deserve that kind of treatment. If there were something in our relationship that was making me unhappy enough that I would consider being with someone else, we would discuss our problems and consider divorce if they couldn't be solved.
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@ravinskye (8237)
• United States
29 Jun 07
I wouldn't do it. I would be heart broken if he did something like that to me, so theres no way I could do it to him. Even if he had no chance of finding out, I would know and it would make me sad knowing that I had done something so hurtful. I love my husband too much to ever heart his feelings like that.
• Pakistan
29 Jun 07
i think if one do this even if he/she never get caught he will feel guilty so i think one should not do this and should be proud of what he/she has in relation
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@tantal25 (838)
• United States
29 Jun 07
i would never do that because i believe in karma and i don't want my boyfriend to do it to me to even if i don't know he's doing it. Also, it is my respect to my boyfriend that i am not cheating on him even if he doesn't know it too.
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@ddnj2006 (652)
• Philippines
11 Jan 08
I do agree.. It doesn't really sound right doing it even no one can ever see.
@eashoor (307)
• Canada
29 Jun 07
Cheating is something that is related to morals and upbringing. Having said that I was brought up in ahouse where My dad had a different mystress every year. So I despise the action itself and would not even entertain the thought as I have lived the destruction that results from it. The sad part is people dont cheat out of fear of being caught or hurting their partners but what they should be thinking about are their core values, what is important to them and what it is going to become of them once they engage in this act. One day when you are sure the other person could not find out you may end up doing it. Most of the time it is exiting initially but then you will decline as you turn into a liar and a cheat who cannot be trusted. Then you will start to think people might be doing the same to you and the saga conitues. Do to others as you want to be done upon you...
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@modstar (9605)
• Philippines
13 Dec 08
That sounds kind of tempting but i think no matter how faithful i am, i still would fall for temptations especially when i won't get caught. Is it an opportunity? Well, somehow. I'm not a hypocrite so i won't say that i won't cheat. I may but not necessarily.
@ddnj2006 (652)
• Philippines
11 Jan 08
Simply, I would not, coz i never want her to did it to me. coz i love her and i know she loves me too. And i can't measure how it would really hurt even when she did it to me. To think that a good relationship, inspite of fighting and misunderstanding,is a matter of trust, respect and true love. You can't have both three if you haven't one of any..(,")
@Ravenladyj (22904)
• United States
11 Jan 08
No...If I wanted to sleep with someone else (and I do) I'd just tell my husband and he knows he's to do the same thing.....
@tekpinoy (14)
• Philippines
1 Jul 07
Frankly, I am still in a very confused staged. sometimes its easy to tell that you are loyal and will always be. But during these times when you see sexy ladies and some of them are really nice makes you think twice and even thrice
• China
11 Jan 08
I think it is not that justifiable to be adventurous in such a way. Well, yeah, you are quite right to think that one should try new things as long as he or she is still young, otherwise, there shall be no such chance, but it is quite risky in many aspects. If you are not serious with any guys, probably you should lower your standards.