Ever fell in love to your bestfriend boy or girlfriend?

@caesarin (1089)
Indonesia
June 29, 2007 12:48pm CST
I never. But if I did, I would step back. I don't want to ruin my best friend relationship. But what if you fell in love to your bestfriend's ex? I don't think I have the courage to say it. Besides, I think my bestfriend might think that I was the cause for their break-up. It will not be good for our friendship.
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@chaime (1153)
• Philippines
6 Jul 07
nah, I don't think so. My guy bestfriend, well, we consider each other as brother and sister so there was no room to develop a feeling other than brotherly or sisterly, besides, I know of his hmmm what shall I call it, naughtiness and he knows of mine, and we both would fear that we'd end up hurting each other, so no romantic feeling blossomed between us.
@caesarin (1089)
• Indonesia
9 Jul 07
Thanks for sharing.
@surveygrrl (1270)
• United States
2 Jul 07
I fell in love with my best guy friend. We have been married almost 6 years now. We dated for 5 years before that. Inseparable since before we started dating. His mother was actually my kindergarten teacher.
@caesarin (1089)
• Indonesia
5 Jul 07
Congratulations! Thanks for sharing.
@healer (1783)
• India
30 Jun 07
I have that experience and its really not very nice to experience such things in life. We lose both of them in the end, it really hurts the other, i mean the best friend and believe me they won't forgive you in their heart. And in the end everything will mess up, so better be wise and take time to think about it. Best friends are a part of our body so don't try to eliminate it as you won't have a healthy body without a part of it.
@caesarin (1089)
• Indonesia
5 Jul 07
Yeah, I should agree with you. Better be careful with our feeling and relationship. Are we sure that it's love and not just a wild spark? If they are settled though we are very much in love with our bestfriend's girl or boy friend, it'll be very much better for us to let them go peacefully. Thanks for sharing.
• Malaysia
29 Jun 07
Falling in love with the person is one thing.... Letting the person and/or your best friend know about it is another. :) I had taken a liking for a best pal's girl before. But like you, I've decided to take a step back. That is to say that no one, other than myself knows how I felt for this girl. I suppose in these situations it would depend on which to you is more important. Friendship or relationship? :)
@caesarin (1089)
• Indonesia
5 Jul 07
Friendship or relationship. I have this opinion that friendship is stronger than relationships. Maybe not all friendships are stronger than relationships. If we are really serious with the relationships, maybe we can just go with the relationship but it really depends. Well, I still prefer not to break the friendships. Thanks for sharing.