How do you feel if your very trusted friend has done something bad behind you?

@jlo228 (170)
Philippines
June 30, 2007 12:21am CST
i am easily to trust person especially if i feel that they're sincere.. it doesn't matter where you from and who are you as long as you've done good to me.. but how if your friend who you trusted the most has done something bad behind your back?? Thinking that the thing she does is just for your own good.. but how it will be for my own good if it is the way to put me in trouble?? that's unfair..... the case is we're friends and no matter what i want to do is you can accept and protect me all the way. But how my friend told everybody that i usually hang-out every night consecutively that's why i am always absent in class... after that all my classmate asking about that especially my professors... She doesn't give me a chance to be the only one to tell them..so miserable friend!
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@aidonia (4209)
• Greece
30 Jun 07
You are young,and you gonna find these kind *friends* in your way.They are just not friends as they want call them self.A good friend even if she is right and she see you did wrong things she must come and speak with you try show you the right and stay next to you whatever you decided. I think is time to check your friends and avoid this person.If you want my opinion she wasn't friend of yours at all.
@jlo228 (170)
• Philippines
1 Jul 07
now i know who's the right person to trust to. Thank's for your opinion.. Have a nice day... ^_^
@annieroos (1845)
• United States
30 Jun 07
I think when a good friend that you trust does somthing bad behind your back just shows that they are not the person you think to be and they don't deserve to have you as a friend.. That is very hurtfull i know.. i have been in a situation that i thought was a great friend.. and then when me and my ex got divorced all of a sudden she wasn't really there anymore and would talk bad about me behind my back and would take my ex's side on everything.. even felt sorry for him.. to this day i have seen her.. she has tried to become my friend again.. but it will never be the same cause i can't trust her.. and what sucks is that she is my daughters God mother.. so i have to see her at family functions.. but i will never have her as a friend.. we can never go back to what we use to be..
@butterfly39 (3904)
• Philippines
30 Jun 07
Well that guy is not really your best friend. Coz a true friend is the one whom you can trust and rely. Telling your teacher of your whereabouts is not good but, you also have a mistake, you don't need to go out at night during classes coz you might be absent the following day. So don't get mad at him, you have to learn your lesson now.