Why are most guys jerks? Guys getting one girl knocked up to another

United States
June 30, 2007 1:02am CST
One of my best friend gave birth six months ago. She was in a relationship with her man for 8 years. They just recently broke up and he moved onto some other girl as soon as they broke up. Its only been three months since they broke up from their 8 year relationship and he had the nerve to get some other girl pregnant. My friend is devasted and hurt. She was trying to get over him but this hurts her even more. What would you do if you were in this situation and what is the best advice I can give my friend to realize he is a jerk and she should move on???
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Melissa528
@Melissa528 (744)
• United States
10 Jul 07
I was in a very similar situation. My sons father and I were together for over 6 years and we split up a few month ago. He quickly moved on to another girl and now they are expecting a child together and my son is only 16 months old. It hurt at first but not as much as I expected it to hurt. He's a jerk and it's better her then me. She seems to be just as immature and stupid as him so maybe they belong together?! LOL. I don't have any advice for your friend. This will hurt her for awhile and she may develop some resentment towards her Ex but she has to be strong for her and her child. They are obviously better off without him.
Melissa528
@Melissa528 (744)
• United States
11 Jul 07
Would this "home girl" you're talking about happen to be your friend Angelica?
lusciousrican20
@lusciousrican20 (238)
• United States
11 Jul 07
No this has nothing to do with my friend Angelica because she is not even pregnant. How do you know that I know her?
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ackars
@ackars (1942)
• India
30 Jun 07
All guys are not jerks.Please get that point.Im a guy and I agree that there are many guys who are jerks.But not all.Im not one dear.
laydee
@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
30 Jun 07
Yeah I believe not all guys are jerks. There are girls too who are jerks. We just need to know which one is a jerk. Let's not put down a gender just because we experience something bad from someone.
lusciousrican20
@lusciousrican20 (238)
• United States
2 Jul 07
I never said ALL guys but I did stated MOST guys are jerks.
sugarfloss
@sugarfloss (2139)
• Malaysia
11 Jul 07
She shouldn't think herself as a victim instead she should thank God for the child she has and love the child.Everything happens for a reason and she should know God does have plans for her and one of it is to not live with her jerk boyfriend.Hope this helps!
lusciousrican20
@lusciousrican20 (238)
• United States
11 Jul 07
God works in mysterious ways. Things happen for a reason.