would you choose a richier guy than a rich guy??
By saierchok
@saierchok (1294)
United States
July 3, 2007 3:54am CST
I got dumped by my Girl who chose a rich guy over me!! though I'm not that poor! I'm not yet working as a doctor and I make 500$ a month, I'm yet 20!! and I believe I have a bright future.. why in the world would she choose a richier guy over me!! though we used to love each other???
would you do the same?
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7 responses
@xiuluoelly (1224)
• China
4 Jul 07
If i really like a person, I will not mind him what kind of person would not care about how his work, no money, I think the two people are together, the most important happy.
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@saierchok (1294)
• United States
8 Jul 07
thanks for response!
wish you happiness!
wish me happiness and wish it to every lonely heart in the world!
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@deebomb (15304)
• United States
3 Jul 07
What makes you so sure it was because he was rich that she as you put it dumped you for? Seeing as you are only 20 it could be because he is more mature. Young men and young women change a lot from the age of 20 until they reach 25. They are still yrying to find their sea legs so to speak. In otherwords trying to find the ideals and who they really are. You have a long way to go to be the Dr you are training for. It's possible She didn't have what it takes to be a Dr.'s wife. Because for he next few years your life will not be your own. Love at you age has a different definition than it does as you get older.
@questionsnoanswers (622)
• Canada
13 Jul 08
Did the woman really dump you over money???? If she did i dont agree with it. However sometimes you just cant help whom you love.
For myself i would never dump one guy for another because he has more money. Its cruel, not only to yourself for living a lie; but also for allowing the other half, to be living in a fake relationship.
I am in a happy relationship. My man aint rich, he aint poor. My father on the other hand found out that my boyfriends brother has alot more money, and he questions me and pressures me saying why are you with this one, go for the brother. But like i said you cant help whom you love/like. It just happens. In love your suppose to follow your heart, not the money.
@saierchok (1294)
• United States
13 Jul 08
Actually yeah she dumped me over a richer guy,
but that was a year ago.. I'm better off now I believe and she's sorry for it no doubt!
I see the results already.. so for all that suffer the way i did, I tell .. she paid back 
but that was a year ago.. I'm better off now I believe and she's sorry for it no doubt!
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@cmcloughlin1218 (265)
• United States
17 Jul 08
Listen man, if she left you now then you're better for it. I wish you all the luck in the world. I wouldn't let money come between me and the girl of my dreams but there might have been more to it. If she was that shallow why did you love her in the first place? Money means a lot to some people. The flip side to the coin is poverty is horrible. Lack of money can destroy a healthy relationship.
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@saierchok (1294)
• United States
17 Jul 08
"If she was that shallow why did you love her in the first place?"
If only one could see behind the pretty face and the magical smile that makes the heart drunk..
yeah.. If only..

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@92iqbal (121)
• India
13 Jul 08
no never. but i'll ask all the'would be' lover to be faithful to their lovers they have chosen. i would like to tell all them that before making love known to your love, understand them if you both think you will carry on then make your intention clear and be loyal to each other.i console with you .don't lose heart you will find someone else. all is not lost . you are only 20.
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@saierchok (1294)
• United States
13 Jul 08
hey :) thanks for responding.. but this was a year ago I'm so over it now!!



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@triptibaby (691)
• India
18 Jul 08
Not at all. For me the true love is more important than that of money. Though money plays a lot, love is precious and one can not offer it for money.
@saierchok (1294)
• United States
18 Jul 08
some people do offer it for money.. or try their best to buy it for money..
sadly it occurs all over the globe in all societies..
making love a cheap brand to be bought and sold!
sadly it occurs all over the globe in all societies..
making love a cheap brand to be bought and sold!1 person likes this
@Monkeyrose (2840)
• Canada
19 Jul 08
She didn't necessarily dump you because he was richer. Maybe things weren't going well between you. Also, maybe this other guy had other qualities that she liked.
Not all women are gold diggers. Money is definately not the only thing that women care about. I find this is a common misconception among men.
@saierchok (1294)
• United States
19 Jul 08
actually you are right, not all women are gold diggers,
but the one that left me was a BIG one!
and the guy she left me for! he had no qualities at all!!
NONE!!
but it's alright now 
and the guy she left me for! he had no qualities at all!!
NONE!!
but it's alright now 
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@saierchok (1294)
• United States
20 Jul 08
thank you
and yeah I'm so much better off without her now!
life looks nicer.. and loneliness doesn't seem that lonely anymore!
and I'm not into any new relationships any time soon...
leaving it to happen by it self!
and yeah I'm so much better off without her now!
life looks nicer.. and loneliness doesn't seem that lonely anymore!
and I'm not into any new relationships any time soon...
leaving it to happen by it self!
@Monkeyrose (2840)
• Canada
19 Jul 08
Thats really unfortnate to hear. It really sucks but at least now you know what her true colours are. I haven't had a relationship in over 2 years. My last one was really screwed up and left me with emotional baggage. I know how tough it is to go through a break up.
You sound like a great guy so keep smiling. I think you're better off.

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