Does looks matter most to you more?
By maybel13
@maybel13 (205)
Philippines
July 3, 2007 5:37am CST
What is love? What is attraction? Why do we love someone? Why do we say that we love someone? Why do not we say that we like someone or are getting attracted to someone? This is all because love is becoming a common word to be used for all kinds of attachments and relationships. Have you quizzed yourself about how much looks matter to you in love?Will you love an ugly looking person even if she/he has every quality in plenty? Or you will accept somebody better looking but missing in some qualities? What if you are told that thebest looking person of the opposite s** has fallen for you and wants to love in return? When you develop relationship, you find that person missing in may essential qualities and values that you respect. What will you do?
Quiz yourself about your relationships. Many of the relationships break because we are attracted by looks but as we get closer we find the other person difficult and break the relationship. It happens with most of us. We all go for looks in the beginning. Very rarely, we give points for other qualities in a logical manner. We look at an attractive person and say I am in love. Quiz yourself and you will realize why many of your relationships broke? We may deny that. But, the main attraction is always great looks.
6 responses
@RUSHER02 (32)
• Philippines
16 Sep 07
hhmmm yeah in a way looks does matter to me but not that much, cause as we all know beauty fades as time goes by. i admit physical attraction comes first followed by the traits or manners et al. then finally if you feel suited to each other and feel the love, well thats the start.
@milestalker (85)
• Philippines
4 Jul 07
LOVE? its amazing word that we hear... Love is like blink.. you dont know when and where it occurs..it is like a blink that suddenly appear. Love is such critical word. Why critical? because you dont know if you can handle such feeling like that...coz when it occurs to much happiness the opposite would be too much pain when love leaves you.
@shadjee1 (602)
• Philippines
3 Jul 07
When i was younger like during high school or college, looks are important. But when I grew older, yes i admit i still consider the looks but it just comes second with personality. Sometimes it wont matter anymore when love comes in the way. The standards that you are looking for in a person in terms of relationship are sometimes the opposite of what you had.
@bluearchi (57)
• Philippines
3 Jul 07
for me, looks matters most, but let us first understand their inner personality before making to judge its personality in compare to its inner sights. i need looks but its not a guarantee to a person that she or he is also have a good personality which can deals to other people good and great. i love people both having personality and brain.
