Do you feel you are handsome to be loved?

@ibsnet (1268)
India
July 3, 2007 2:23pm CST
Whether men or women, handsome ones are always loved more and many are attracted towards them. What about you? Are you handsome to be loved one?
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@prily9 (568)
• Indonesia
31 Jul 07
I guess not loved more but attracted more. don't you like to see someone handsome or beautiful.the first time we see is someone face, right? for me maybe I'm not the most beautiful person in this world but I believe I'm preety enough. I know all my husband ex and all of them are good looking and he ever told me that I am preety. I guess if everybody desn't think I'm preety is fine the important thing I'm preety for my husband
@ibsnet (1268)
• India
31 Jul 07
I think you are much beautiful to be loved. Thanks for sharing your true view. Can't say how beautiful you are as I there is no avatar there.
@RobinJ (2501)
• Canada
15 Jul 07
I do not believe I am particularly good looking. but there are men who have made me believe that I am the most beautiful woman in the world.They knew what self wort was and showed me that I was very valuable to them. I never had a romantic relationship with them, but I treasure them none the less. because of their ability it is rare.
@ibsnet (1268)
• India
31 Jul 07
Scaling beauty is not possible. One can't say he/she is the most beautiful in earth. So it's one other's belief that makes our heart solace with the beauty in each other.
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@patgalca (18481)
• Orangeville, Ontario
3 Jul 07
I think beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I see some couples and think, "What in the world does she see in him?" or vice versa. People probably think the same thing about me. What does my husband see in me? He thinks I'm beautiful. I think I'm "not bad". People come in all shapes and sizes, different personalities, like and dislikes. What attracts one person to someone and DOESN'T another is all in the power of attraction, in each other's tastes, and perhaps God's will. It is a mystery. But we do have to make sure that we don't love someone for just what we see on the outside, but on the inside as well. Otherwise you will not be truly happy.
@ibsnet (1268)
• India
4 Jul 07
Beauty is observed by others. That's very true. Thanks for responding.
3 Jul 07
Doesn't seem important to me. I'm not shallow or bothered what others think, or even more "loved" me.. I'm bothered about my family and friends and things which are important and this isn't to me :) Just a silly part of life... ~Joey kudos!
@byfaithonly (10698)
• United States
3 Jul 07
I don't think this is really true - handsome people may 'attract' more people at first but I've known many people who were very handsome but when I got to know them they weren't handsome at all. I think that beauty, true beauty, comes from the inside and shows out but 'ugliness' will show through also. I don't care how handsome someone is on the outside if they are ugly on the inside they are not going to be loved more.
@ibsnet (1268)
• India
4 Jul 07
Nice thinking. Inner beauty is true beauty and makes a great bond of love. Thanks for responding.
@cdparazo (5765)
• Philippines
4 Jul 07
I think I have a beautiful spirit that is worthy to be loved. I know that appearance matters but only in the beginning. In the long run, its the spirit of the person that counts.
@ibsnet (1268)
• India
4 Jul 07
I appreciate your view. Thanks.