people cone into your life for a reason

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@lyndee22 (1210)
Philippines
July 4, 2007 1:28am CST
People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person. When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend and they are. They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometim! es they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on. Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow or learn. They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it, it is real. But only for a season.! LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons, things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant. Thank you for being a part of my life, whether you were a reason, a season or a lifetime.
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7 responses
@sophylline (1042)
• Philippines
7 Sep 07
I think this is a very interesting topic. You have a philosophical way of thinking and I must admit you have enlightened me somehow. Very well thought out. I would also like to copy this for an everyday reminder, if you don't mind. Thank you for coming into my life for a reason.(:
@lyndee22 (1210)
• Philippines
10 Sep 07
Thank you for appreciating the post and you are free to have it as your everyday reminder. Sometimes we lost our focus and we find ourselves struggling to nothing. It's really helpful to have something as guide.
@hari120 (623)
• India
14 Aug 07
Let me congratulate you for posting a very good discussion,and it has been written very nicely.
@lyndee22 (1210)
• Philippines
15 Aug 07
Thank you for taking time to read my post. God Bless.
@rb200406 (1824)
• India
29 Jul 07
VEry well written friend.It is so true.Thanks a lot.Take care.
@lyndee22 (1210)
• Philippines
30 Jul 07
Thank you and regards.
@jcvernz (477)
• Philippines
6 Jul 07
Hello lyndee. I have received same as this on an email from a very dear friend of mine. Glad to know you posted this one. This is so nice and i do believe every word on it.Thanks for sharing this to us. Good day.
@lyndee22 (1210)
• Philippines
9 Jul 07
I also received this thru email and upon reading it I decided to share to all because of the great message it brings. Thank you jcvernz.
• Philippines
6 Jul 07
I believe in what you said. People come into our lices for a reason. Even the ones that leave bad or painful memories come into our lives to make us learn whatever we should. Things that we could look unto whenever we have to be strong.
@lyndee22 (1210)
• Philippines
9 Jul 07
Yes, there's always a reason in everything. Thanks
@raijin (10371)
• Philippines
5 Jul 07
We grow as a person or an individual by learning from them and I am glad that though some came, left, some have stayed to share their lives with me. I agree with you, we don't need to feel any guilt or regrets about them. It's part of living, the best thing to do is move on and make the best from what we had..
@lyndee22 (1210)
• Philippines
6 Jul 07
Yes thats true we learn from our experiences. Thanks raijin..
@maddysmommy (16232)
• United States
4 Jul 07
That's really nice lyndee, thanks for sharing! hope you don't mind if i copy this so i can refer to it from time to time.
@lyndee22 (1210)
• Philippines
5 Jul 07
Thank you for the appreciation. Yes you can copy it. It's very nice to have some reminders like this