Is it good to have a younger boyfriend?
By monicazhang
@monicazhang (802)
China
July 4, 2007 4:49am CST
I've always wanted to find a boyfriend who is much older than me.I believe they are muture,considerate and more responsible.But when I fell in love with my current boyfriend,I found he is actually younger than me.Although I accepted it finally,my parents are not satisfied with the age difference.Besides,people around me said it was not good as time goes by cause women are more easily getting old.To be frank,I am a little bit confused nowadays,is it that bad?My dear friend,what do you think of this?
3 responses
@simplejoy (359)
• China
4 Jul 07
I think as long as you two feel good,it has nothing to do with others' viewpoints.The age difference is not a big deal.Love is the most important thing in relationship.Suppose that you meet an elder man without feeling,will you be happy?So don't be confused about age,Monica.Trust your own feeling and trust love.
@vicki2876 (5636)
• Canada
4 Jul 07
I never really cared about age but I ended up with someone 9 years older than I and we have been together 11 years. Sounds great that you found simon and liked him for him and he you for you not matter what the age is. That is the best basis of a great relationship! We life in the 2000 age doesn't matter anymore. :)
@monicazhang (802)
• China
4 Jul 07
Yes,I agree with you.Sometimes things are totally different from what we have thought before.'Life is full of expected things,some of them are good,some of them are bad',that is absolutely true for me.
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@puchapox (579)
• Philippines
4 Jul 07
Hello there monica! I think age is relative, it doesn't really matter, because in the end what matters is your love for each other. He may be young but if he is emotionally and intellectually mature, that would be a lot better than men who don't act their age.
@monicazhang (802)
• China
4 Jul 07
Thanks for what you have said.I really appreciate it.We didnt konw each other for a long time but at least we are very happy now.And he is quite in terms of his age and I think he is that kind of person I can rely on.I wish we can have a happy ending:-)Thanks again,dear puchpox!
