i'm so worried about my daughter...

Why isn't your daughter with you anyway? I don't think that you are a bad mom if you are doing all that you can to provide for your child. I am a little confused as to why a 13 year old with a medical condition would not be with you, but I am sure you have your reasons. Make sure that she knows that you know what she is going to have to endure and that you love her and that you are with her in your heart.

just pick your priorities. you parents are doing all they can. will a plane ticket break your bank account? if this is the case then be glad her grand parents are there as you financially cannot afford to be with her..but what are you spending your money on? if it is computers and appliances and goods and services before thinking of your daughter then you would be wrong. if you drink, smoke, gamble, lottery, casino and spend your money on luxury items ..then you would be wrong..but if all your monely is going to keeping your family fed and housed then you are not wrong..as who is going to do this if you stop work and go back to the Philippines. The only one to answer these questions is you. You have to do what you think is best for the welfare of all concerned. There are a lot of good doctors in the Philippines and your parents will see that she is getting the best care possible..so relax and just do what you can do...she will be ok..she is in God's hands..just pray and have faith.

I could not leave my only son. If I ever move he must move with me. I am his only mother I am responsible for him till he will be strong enough to live without me. God give us children to raise them, teach them, love and care about them. Yes I think, that you are a bad mom, because you chose something else instead of your daughter. You should not have been a mother, because you are not a responsible person.

I'm sure that your daughter will understand you, she's a big girl right now!;) The support that you can give her right now is, talk to her and make give her more encouragement. That she have to be brave, as you love her so much despite the distance between the two of you..

I feel so sad knowing you're far away from your daughter but I understand your feelings because I also have a daughter same as that age. Being far from our children is a very difficult thing to do but it seems you're doing everything just for their future. You don't have to worry at all because your daughter is in good hands with your parents,and you have been so responsible enough to support her financially especially now that she has this illness. I know you have been in a very difficult situation, feels like you're in a hot pot of boiling water for which you do not know where to stand. But still it is only in your heart that you knew how hurtful you are right now that your daughter is sick without you on her side, and yet so strong just to provide everything for her. Don't you worry, things will get better soon.