React wives:

@jonaida (574)
Philippines
July 4, 2007 10:56pm CST
How do you feel if you are with your husband walking down the street yet he is looking intently to other ladies?
4 responses
• Philippines
5 Jul 07
I am a man, may i reat to it? when we are walking down the street with wife, and husband look intently with other ladies, it does not mean we con't love our wives anymore. it is actually admiring the beauty of other ladies. but husband do not mean anything. to stop that, wives don't have to nag or fight with husband. wives should see to it that they are beautiful and pleasing to the eyes of thei husband. trouble with wives, they neglect themselves. they stop making themselves beautiful just because of simple reason: they are married now, no one to impress. wives should make themselves beautiful each day that passes by.
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5 Jul 07
Yes, you are right, but not for their husbands. Women should make themselves beautiful for themselves first of all. Then their confidence will shine! Men and women both should take care of themselves like they did when they were single, but looking is just that.. looking.. it does not mean your mate wil cheat.
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@jonaida (574)
• Philippines
6 Jul 07
He makes me conscious about doing something to beautify myself, I'm guilty of being passive on the way I look. When I was pregnant, I was preoccupied with something else and may have forgotten about it, now I'm blooming again, thought so.
@jonaida (574)
• Philippines
5 Jul 07
Ok, that's also the point of my husband, but when I try to do something to make myself beautiful, he keeps teasing me...
5 Jul 07
20 years ago I would have felt threatened. Now I would just smile and look around myself. If he goes home with you, no worries. It is normal and harmless to "look" and you should feel free to as well. Let's face it, you are the one who will benefit if he gets excited ;)
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@jonaida (574)
• Philippines
5 Jul 07
It makes me uncomfortable...but you're right it is but normal
5 Jul 07
Just remember..he married you! And you must look at other men, right? As long as you only go home with each other, it's all good :)
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@jonaida (574)
• Philippines
6 Jul 07
I'm the winner afterall... hahaha!
5 Jul 07
20 years ago I would have felt threatened. Now I would just smile and look around myself. If he goes home with you, no worries. It is normal and harmless to "look" and you should feel free to as well. Let's face it, you are the one who will benefit if he gets excited ;)
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@roxprice (30)
• United States
5 Jul 07
Everyone (men and women) "checks out" others, but it is *rude* to be obvious about it. If my husband were obviously looking at someone else I'd either smack his arm (playfully, but firm enough to get his attention) or if we were seated at dinner and he stopped paying attention to me to look at someone else, I'd think about sticking a fork into his leg just enough for him to see me...grinning...with all my teeth.... My husband is human and a healthy male, but I don't put up with rudeness....
@jonaida (574)
• Philippines
6 Jul 07
That's a good tip, maybe I'll try that.hahaha! I think it's just but part of the male genes or species.