If your partner cooks something you don't like....

@muscare (3068)
Australia
July 5, 2007 4:48am CST
Do you eat it, then tell them a little later that you didn't really like it, or do you just tell them straight out as you're eating it that it tastes like ... well, you know!? Or do you not say anything at all, knowing how they slaved over it to make it right? Or maybe they are such great cooks, they only ever serve great food.
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@Feona1962 (7526)
• United States
21 Oct 07
My husband does all the cooking and he asks me first what I want...There have been a time or two that I didn't like the taste of the chicken he made because it wasn't done enough or my hamburger wasn't well done...We eat the same things so there really isn't a problem...Other than that no problems here in the food department...LOL
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@muscare (3068)
• Australia
21 Oct 07
I like certain foods cooked certain ways, like my steak I prefer medium, but chops and sausages need to be well done! My wife doesn't always like her food cooked the same, lol! We do share the cooking, so we get equal chance to complain....oops, I meant compliment!
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@abiesm (373)
• Vietnam
6 Jul 07
I don't have a partner yet ^^ But it's from my mom .She never tell dad that he cooks very badly
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@muscare (3068)
• Australia
6 Jul 07
Yes that is a good way to resolve the situation. That way, not only does your dad's cooking improve, but your mum gets to have a bit of a break from it, at least in the long run!
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@fawcey (926)
• Australia
6 Jul 07
I think it is best to tell straight away, nicley of course! And I don't think you should eat it if you dont like it. I would hate it if my hubby just ate something cos I cooked it!!!
@fawcey (926)
• Australia
12 Oct 07
I have to say I try to like fish cos I know it is good for me, but it is not one of my favourite things. The way my hubby does fish for me at least makes it easier for me to eat fish, but I still wouldnt put it on my favourite list, but I prefer it the way he does it...
@muscare (3068)
• Australia
13 Oct 07
Well fish is suppose to be brain food, but I don't know that it makes much difference, so I'm sure you aren't lacking anything just because you don't like fish, and don't eat it! I wonder if it has something to do with what kids get exposed to as to whether or not they like certain foods?! I was brought up eating fish, I wonder if thats why I like it? Mind you, I hate brussels sprouts, and also would have as a kid, so I don't know!!
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@muscare (3068)
• Australia
7 Jul 07
That's a good idea. It saves on mixed messages. I think my wife use to just eat fish, only because I cooked it, not because she really liked it!
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@ibuemma (2953)
• United States
5 Jul 07
Sometimes i told my hubby that his cooking is not fit with my taste..LOL...but that doesn't happen often. Usually he ask me first when he start cooking if i want some, and end up he keep asking me to taste it...if it missing something.
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@muscare (3068)
• Australia
6 Jul 07
Hmmm, I do this with my wife's cooking sometimes, lol! At least your hubby has it worked out now, if you try it as he's going, he knows that you are going to like it once it's served up!
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• Philippines
21 Oct 07
I could relate to this matter since I have once experienced such thing. My ex-boyfriend was really a good cook but since we are not perfect, he does fail in cooking sometimes. There was one time that he cooked me something which I really find so sucking. The taste was so weird that I can't afford to swallow it. But as a sign of respect, I just ate the food no matter how sucking it is. Because I don't wanna hurt his feelings and I also would wanna show him that I do appreciate his effort in doing so. But right after the meal, I told him that the food was good but it would be better if we're not gonna have that kind of recipe again.
@muscare (3068)
• Australia
22 Oct 07
Yeah, well I guess we are all human, even I make mistakes sometimes, lol! You ate the food out of respect? Wow, you must be special, I would have spat it and said something, rather than have to eat something that tastes disgusting!
@homelife (17)
• Philippines
22 Nov 07
I would say.. Honey, don't you think it would be more delicious if you add some salt or lessen the soy sauce? Then, give him a kiss and sweet hug!
@muscare (3068)
• Australia
23 Nov 07
That's a good way to do it, a few little tips and a hug and kiss to let him know that you appreciate his effort!
@Calais (10893)
• Australia
7 Jul 07
My hubby is a pretty good cook, but there has been a couple of times he has cooked and I have not liked it, I just tell him straight away, and then we just get something else to eat, and then he knows not to cook it again..But usually if I dont like it, he seems to not like it also, so our tastes are similar.
@muscare (3068)
• Australia
8 Jul 07
I think my wife and I are much the same, in that our tastes are similar, except for seafood, that is. If I've whipped something up and it tastes like crap to me, I know she won't like it. We've usually got something we can eat instead!
@punlonnjack (1308)
• United States
19 Jul 07
My husband is a great cook only rarely does he cook something I dont like. I do tell him why like to much salt not enough so on. Im not a picky eater so I like just about anything.. I do however dont like things to spicy or with to much sauce. When I cook he lets me know if there is something he dont like. I dont cook it again..Why not be honest.
@muscare (3068)
• Australia
19 Jul 07
I agree that honesty is best. my wife and I both cook at different times, and most times we are happy to eat what has been dished up. Sometimes though, my wife likes to cut corners, resulting in a cooking disaster, lol!
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@Ramsakha (205)
• India
21 Oct 07
My wife is a very good cook. Every dish she prepares is tasty. There had been no time that I could eat the food cooked by her. No doubt, there are times when salt is less then I ask for it.
@muscare (3068)
• Australia
22 Oct 07
You are lucky to have a wife who cooks well. Not saying mine isn't, lol, but some things she should stay away from! At least for you, you can always add more salt to your meal!
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