why do we fall the one's who hurt us

@nikkiwith (1074)
Australia
July 5, 2007 8:10pm CST
how many of us girls have gone through this;-why isn't he calling me? -why does he tell me he loves me and then ignores me? -why does he make so many promises? -why don't i feel secure with him? -I'm not happy with him so why do i love him? -why? -why? -why? Does any body know how we can stop falling for these heart breakers?
3 responses
@heartsick (832)
• Philippines
7 Jul 07
no one knows what will happen in the future friend.. we dont know that the one we love is the one who will put a tear on your heart in the end. just be more careful. and if it get hurts it will surely heal in time..
@nikkiwith (1074)
• Australia
7 Jul 07
Hello heartsick, What you say is true but we can avoid being treated badly if we listen to our gut instinct. Our gut always knows best. I should have listened to mine but i always follow my feelings. Being a Pisces, my feelings run very deep.
• Philippines
8 Jul 07
just remember this nikki, i read this in a small passage.. no man ever deserve your tears, and the one deserve it won't even make you cry.. just sharin' :)
• India
7 Jul 07
Hi nikkiwith! I did for one too. He dumped me. I still have not fallen out of love with him.I definitely do not regret the time he was in my life.
@nikkiwith (1074)
• Australia
7 Jul 07
Hello Lovelydame3000! I am in a similar situation. My boyfriend dumped me and moved away and i still love him. I am glad he came into my life because his behavior has taught me a lot. I can't take him back again, i deserve better. He will be back, he always comes back.
@dpk262006 (58679)
• Delhi, India
10 Jul 07
Everybody goes through this kind of emotions...and asks this kind of intriguing and unanswerable questions. You need to be patient to know the truth.