What would you do if your partner cheated?

@vicki2876 (5640)
Canada
July 7, 2007 8:44am CST
I am not talking about teen romances with nothing really invested in the relationship EG: Kids, money, investments etc. I am talking about ones where leaving would be difficult. Not just emotionally but physically financially. If it was a one night stand while drunk would it be different than a long term mistress? Or does it not make a difference what the situation was? What would you do?
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• United States
15 Jul 07
My wife always tells me that if I cheated on her she would "chop it off," so needless to say I don't think I will ever be doing that. If she cheated on me, then I guess I would have to "chop his off" LOL.
@vicki2876 (5640)
• Canada
16 Jul 07
lol
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@tantal25 (839)
• United States
8 Jul 07
i guess i would leave my partner if he cheated. we have talked before about this thing because he had done this before, and i decided to give him another chance and i told him that it is the first and last chance. i guess, if my partner did it again, i'll do what i told him, and that is to leave him even though i love him so much.
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@vicki2876 (5640)
• Canada
8 Jul 07
I supposed that is true if he has done it before and does it again and you stay, he knows you will always stay no matter have many times he cheats. Maybe just that one time and the thought that he could lose you was enough to make him see how lucky he is. Thanks!
@rinaaus (1203)
• Australia
10 Jul 07
If my partner cheat me, I will give him a chance to say the truth and stop cheating me anymore. If not, I will get out of his cheating, let's hm get lost with his cheating!!!
• Philippines
8 Jul 07
investing in a relationship is already considered part and parcel of the relationship itself..for one cannot get one's emotion when you don't invest in it....if ever i caught my partner cheating on me...i would telll her that what she did is unfair and she has lost the respect that she deserves and that the kind of love and affection i have given to her cannot be reciprocated by the individual that she has chosen over me..or maybe you are looking for something else that i cannot give...i would just tell her my feelings rather than doing something stupid
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