How would you secretly punish someone who secretly cheated on you,

@saralee1 (1983)
United States
July 7, 2007 6:37pm CST
and you found out? I had this happen with a boyfriend once, it was pretty bad. Sometimes, you have to take revenge, other than killing the poor guy! so, I decided to leave him miserable. I scrubbed the toilet with his toothbrush, put cortizone in his toothpaste, nair in his conditioner bottle, itching powder in his sheets, took out all the inner soles out of his shoes, dyed his dogs hair pink, tore a few pages out of his favorite novels. (ever try reading a book missing pages?)left a note stating I was HIV positive, and then moved into his aunts house, and turned her against him. maybe he will think twice before cheating on the next one.
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12 responses
7 Jul 07
Well... I would avoid him for a few days for reasons like "sorry, honey, I'm going out with X, can't come with" or "sorry, honey, I feel like playing backgammon with X online"... and after that tell him. I would confront him, but not imediatly, to avoid lame scenes like crying and stuff. And I would defenetly dump him after. But the toilet scrubing sounds nice :)
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• United States
7 Jul 07
Yeah I think giving him a piece of his own medicine by showing him you'll do things without him and leave him out just like he left you out when he was cheating is a good thing. :D
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7 Jul 07
Yes, well, men have this strange feeling that once you fell inlove with them you can't do anything without them and they can do just as well what they want. They don't take into consideration that you can fall out of love and get to the "hate you, SOB" part :) All the best ;) http://shtrumph-lianna.blogspot.com/
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• United States
7 Jul 07
Hrm that all seems pretty awful. I think the only thing I would do if I ever caught my boyfriend cheating would be to find a way to prove it to everyone he knew about what a cheating jerk he was. But I honestly don't know what I would do in that situation. I guess it all matters on circumstance, but torturing someone horribly I think is just wrong. But then again, I haven't been in that boat yet.
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@saralee1 (1983)
• United States
8 Jul 07
there are definitely worse things to do. I knew a girl in school, whose father had cheated on her mother. the mother took hot burning oil, and poured it on his....member. needless to say, he never cheated again. I'd never go that far, gross!
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@fvalente (851)
• Portugal
8 Jul 07
OMG! that's an extreme punishment. . . I only would start acting like a cheater xD
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@saralee1 (1983)
• United States
10 Jul 07
yeah, it was extreme. I guess that is the way they take care of things in their country.
• United States
8 Jul 07
Nice. Remind me not to get you angry with me. I have two ideas. Idea one I would sell all his stuff for less than half it is worth. So when he came home, it would be a empty apartment or house he comes home to. Idea two is to leave his place the was I first saw it when I moved in.It would be like I wasn't there.And when he came to look for me, I would act as though I didn't know him. I wouldn't talk to him ever again.Then again I could do both.So when he asked where all his stuff was I could ask "Who are you?"
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@saralee1 (1983)
• United States
8 Jul 07
Hey, I am not a mean person, (LOL) that was just an old boyfriend, who did me wrong, in a big way! (even had the nerve to bring women by, the ones he was "sleeping with" calling them 'friends'. his friends were suprised that I was not in an open relationship, they had no idea! and, this was stuff we talked about too. (the relationship) so it wasn't as if he never knew! after a year of this rotten relationship, I swore I'd never get attached again. Luckily, for my current husband, something happened along the way that changed my mind.
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• United States
8 Jul 07
You are nice until it is time not to be nice and that's cool. I am so glad you have found a good man. All's well that ends well.
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@camary (21)
• Philippines
8 Jul 07
it happened to me too, a boyfriend told me he is single and that he would want to spend the rest of his life with me, then i found out that he is married really and that all the things he told me are all lies.so what i did was, i sent his parents his love letters to me and the pictures that we are together on a date, i had my face hidden on the pics so i need not worry that they would recognise me if ever they would see me, i never heard from him since
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@saralee1 (1983)
• United States
8 Jul 07
that sounds like the story plot in the grudge. now I think I am creeped out!
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@wisedragon (2328)
• Philippines
8 Jul 07
I guess leaving would be the best punishment. Then move on with someone far better. That would make him realize that he made the biggest mistake of his life.
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@cutepenguin (6447)
• Canada
8 Jul 07
I have a friend who reported her ex to the IRS.
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@sid556 (30987)
• United States
8 Jul 07
It has happened to me too. I just cried and carried on and then I left and moved on...guilt free. Im not big on revenge. it tends to make me feel bad about myself so while it is tempting, i do refrain.
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@jillhill (37377)
• United States
8 Jul 07
Wow! You certainly know how to make someone miserable. I did something to revenge someone too once. I ordered 12 new magazines, plus a bunch of other stuff to be delivered to his house so he had to unsubscribe to them. I also had a sample of depends, adult diapers shipped plus a few other things. I did get some sort of feeling of satisfaction from it, and alot of laughs.
@eaforeman6 (8983)
• United States
9 Jul 07
I would make him feel so guilty and so bad.....that when I got finished with him.....it would be the last thought to ever hit his mind again.... I would drag him over the coals.....and thats if he were truly sorry and repentative....and if hes not then look out.....id be getting flowers from a body builder.....and put the mind jedi on him soooo bad....then dump him like yesterdays news...
@ESKARENA1 (18296)
8 Jul 07
this made me smile. A few years ago now when i was cheated on, i took an add out in the local newspaper that swimply said x was not gay, whatever the romours say. very effective blessed be
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@Michele21 (3094)
• United States
7 Jul 07
I had this one "friend" who I just didn't like anymore (we were not friends anymore when I did this). So I went to the grocery store to the magazine sections, and I got all of the magazine subscription things, ya know the little post cards that you fill out when you want to sunscribe to a magazine? And I filled out HUNDREDS in her name and address. It was so funny!! I had a friends who still talked to her every now and then and she called her one day saying, "I am getting all of these magazines in the mail that I did not subscribe to, just today I got 5 in the mail!!" She was so confused as to what was happening and why she was getting all these magazines. It was so funny picturing her checking her mail every day and getting all of these random magazines and bills for them!! I know it is terrible but I still laught about it today and this was like 4 years ago!!
• Philippines
10 Jul 07
well, i have think of that..but i dont know if i can do some revenge..i may be tough sometimes but deep inside im a softie..but what i told my bf is that once he cheats on me, he better run away and hide because ill kill him and the one he did it with OR ill cut off his p*nis
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@saralee1 (1983)
• United States
12 Jul 07
This should be a national warning to men; if you darest cheat on us, who knows how crazy your GF, wife, mate will be?