Swingers!!
By cyntrow
@cyntrow (8523)
United States
6 responses
@mummymo (23706)
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8 Jul 07
Hey honey i will be totally honest here - I never have and I never would! You may say that I am boring and a prude but I am they type of person that likes to make love with someone I really care about and I would never cheat on a partner either - it is just me! Don't get me wrong I don't judge other people who do this (unless my partner tried it!) and would never say they were bad for doing what they do if everyone is consenting go ahead and enjoy yourself , I just won't be joining in! xxx
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@Stiletto (4579)
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11 Jul 07
I've been fairly sexually adventurous in the past but I haven't ever done the "swinging" thing although I have contemplated it occasionally during times of boredom lol! Never as part of a serious couple though - I'm just way too jealous to ever do anything like that and I know it would never work for me. I've been friends with a couple who are into the "swinging" lifestyle and it works really well for them. They seem to have a really strong relationship and they're really good people to be around. I do tend to avoid their parties though!
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@Ravenladyj (22902)
• United States
9 Jul 07
I was a part of the swingers lifestyle many yrs ago...many many LOL and back then I really did enjoy it...I mean it was a specific group of ppl not just randoms but it was swingin none the less and if you follow the rules and are safe it can be quite the experience :-D Actually my husbands ex boss (one of them) who was a client of mine when I was dancing is a hardcore swinger and he just got married yesterday to his equally hardcore swinging gf LOL I personally couldnt do in this day and age but he and his woman seem to really enjoy it...they throw swinger parties and the whole nine yrds LOL all the power to them I say :-D
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@cyntrow (8523)
• United States
13 Jul 07
From what I've seen, people who get into the lifestyle trying to make their bad marriage better only end up deteriorating it further. Strong marraiges can be enhanced by it. But no person should ever get into it because someone else wants them to.
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@EvanHunter (4026)
• United States
14 Jul 07
I am not into casual relationships and I am way too jealous to ever even contemplate such a thing. No use denying who you are and I am not a sharing type of guy I dont share myself with anyone else and I sure dont expect my spouse to be doing any sharing either.
@hermitcrabheaven (645)
• United States
8 Jul 07
I have thought about it. I think it could be fun and exciting, if done with the right people. I've been married for just shy of 7 years now, so it would never happen. I don't think it would be beneficial to my relationship, and my husband claims he has no interest in doing anything like that.
What about you? What are your thoughts on the subject?
@cyntrow (8523)
• United States
13 Jul 07
I think if done for the right reasons, it is fine. Too many women, especially, get into it because they are trying to please their husbands which is the wrong reason. Also, a bad marriage could never be healed by swinging. It can only make the problems worse. A strong marriage, however, could be enhanced by swinging. Also, it should never become an obsession.
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@19ewf84 (461)
• Austria
5 Aug 07
"married..... so it would never happen"
well, I do know some people who are married and do it so... there's no big deal if you are interested in it and so on.. people are different and that's very good... not everything is for anyone so..
I thought about doing it but I will not do it for several reasons I won't talk about here right now...
But I'm not one of those people who says "OMG, how the hell can you do something like that? that's ..."
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@hermitcrabheaven (645)
• United States
6 Aug 07
I didn't elaborate very well here. I mean my husband is not into it, so it would never happen. I know there are many married couples who do it, and that's fine. I think it's all up to the person. I've thought about trying it, but like I said, my husband won't participate.
