What Guys Are Afraid Of About Girls . . (interesting)
@ifinallyfoundmybaby (1742)
Philippines
July 8, 2007 6:53pm CST
a recent survey i made:)
Are you scaring guys off?
Even the biggest, strongest (and hottest) guys aren't always fearless when it comes to girls. Here's what they're most afraid of.
commitment
"When a girl tries to control the emotions I'm feeling, I don't like it at all. Like when we've only been dating for a week or two, and every day she asks 'Are we boyfriend and girlfriend? What are we?' I think things should progress naturally -- you don't have to talk about it every day."
rejection
"The thought of telling a girl how you feel about her, and then her telling you right to your face that she doesn't feel the same way -- it's pretty bad."
cosmetic overload
"You know -- fake hair, fake eyelashes. When everything is artificial, it says that the girl hides, because she's hiding her true beauty." -
that you might be lying
"Girls are much better liars than guys! So we get nervous that they're not always telling us the truth. They probably get away with a lot more stuff than we do -- they always seem to find a good excuse!" -Kenny,
breast implants
"If she's insecure enough to get them, she's probably hard to get to know and fairly jealous too. You have to be passionate and put your heart into a relationship, and you can't do that if you're insecure." -
when you come on too strong
"When I first meet a girl and I'm with all my friends, I don't like it if she expects all of my attention. I'd feel less pressured if she didn't try so hard to get me to focus totally on her."
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@animejosse (256)
• Sweden
9 Jul 07
I can understand commitment too soon - two weeks isn't usually enough time to decide if the relationship will last for a long time. There are expectations of course, but then again both parties are usually aware of that, not just one of them.
I don't know about other people, but if I'm out with my boyfriend's friends it would be weird if we only paid attention to each other. We can to that when we're alone, otherwise I'm there to get to know his friends as well. Even if the relationship ends I'll hopefully have some new people to hang out with.
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@ifinallyfoundmybaby (1742)
• Philippines
9 Jul 07
Thank you for actually reading it :)
well we seem to have gained alot when a relationship ends. :)
so its bad for them and good for us . . anyways what have we got to lose :)
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@animejosse (256)
• Sweden
9 Jul 07
Exactly. There will be heartbreaks, true, but it helps us to grow :)
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@ifinallyfoundmybaby (1742)
• Philippines
9 Jul 07
haha, you're so right
and as i usually say it
"EX BOYFRIENDS ARE LOSERS"
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