Does love hurts?
By maean_19
@maean_19 (4655)
Philippines
July 8, 2007 9:49pm CST
Do you believe that loving can give you pain?
How do you deall with it?
Do you love on the rebound?
6 responses
@megaplaza (1441)
• Nigeria
10 Jul 07
yeah, love does hurt atimes. i was in love, my love just broke my heart. she left me for someone else. can you see the pains.
@buddha02 (128)
• Philippines
9 Jul 07
it hurts. most of the time love hurts. even if just to make your love one happy, you have to be hurt first, for their sake? hurt is the consequence. there maybe times that love might be hurtful because of the game but, it is you and your partner who makes it hurtful not love. sometimes we hurt the person we most loved because we believe that they will never be gone even if we hurt them the most....
@Married2aMarine (1273)
• United States
9 Jul 07
Yes, absolutely. That is because the people who are closest to us whom we love most are the people who can also hurt us the most. Inevitably, no matter how much we love each other and vow not to hurt each other, we will end up doing it one way or another...because we are all humans and we make mistakes. We may do the wrong thing or say the wrong thing, etc. How to deal with this pain? Just know that life is too short and it's good to forgive easily and love quickly. It does take time to heal all wounds...some longer than others...but in time, it will heal. And always look forward and not dwell in the past. What has happened has happened and nothing we can do can change that but we can make sure it doesn't happen that way again in the future. Yes, absolutely love again..but maybe not immediately after ending one relationship. There needs to be a time to mourn, a time to heal. But I always believe, it's better to have loved and lost than never to have loved before.
@molusk (857)
• Philippines
9 Jul 07
For me, maean_19 my friend, love is everything. Love is something you cherish, you enjoy and sometimes, you may have pains with. But mostly for me, it is something to be so joyful about, knowing your wife loves you as much as ou do for her. It is really something when you knew your wife, your children cares for you as much as you care for them. But when it comes to pain in loving, I could not care less. I am a person who have not tasted love before. My wife was the person who showed me love. That is why I cannot seem to realize pain, if there is any, in the way we love each other.
@butterfly39 (3904)
• Philippines
9 Jul 07
Yes, In a relationship it's always be that way...hurting and loving...but sometimes if you love someone you can always accept him even if we are hurt.
