mindful loving

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according to the book mindful loving, the kind of love that characterizes what we feel when we fall in love is not empowering love, its not unconditional;indeed it is based failingly on need and powerlessness.just think of the familiar colloquial phrases to describe the feeling of falling in love.words like im crazy about you. all of them indicate a state of ungroundedness, as if a force has taken us away from our sanity. and a marriage that begins with our need for the other persons love is doomed to fail so long as it stays on that track.