Right love at the wrong time..
By vonn1378
@vonn1378 (706)
Philippines
July 14, 2007 1:54am CST
I had a friend that he has a childhood friend whom he is secretly and I may say madly in love with. But the irony of it, the girl is married already when they realized that they both love each other. My friend is still willing to marry the girl but in our country divorce are not being practice. They are not having any indecent affair as of the moment but they are planning to be with each other after things be in right place.
I reckon it is a right love at the wrong time. Do you think it will work? Any opinion that you can share regarding this?
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3 responses
@ctiu80 (216)
• Philippines
14 Jul 07
In my opinion only. That would be hard for both of them even though it's right time or not. Because let face it the girl is already married. Even though they love each other. But the things the word "Married" for me. i should tell the girl that she should try to work thing out between her husband. She agree to married will her husband then its means their a LOVE involve. The girl should try to work the married not because that one day she realize that she in-love with his childhood friend. I dont think that a good thing to do whether it good or wrong time. Then the man should respect the married of the girl he should stop the affair. I still believe that the married of the girl can be fix.. because she allow herself to get married to his husband.. no one is stupid to get married without LOVE involved. That's my opinion only. It's still the last say of the two people whether they will continue the affair or not. To do the right thing or not.=)
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@seksiconnie (1173)
• Philippines
14 Jul 07
i think it will,thats love were talking about..do what it takes :)
@slimpro (1)
• United States
1 Aug 07
It will not work, not because you feel something
you can call it love.
@liyan97 (2127)
• Northern Mariana Islands
14 Jul 07
Hello vonn1378,
I believe that this kind of situation is not uncommon. I too have a friend who has been in love with her best friend since childhood that is already married. I think that the reason for actually feeling that the love is right is due to the simple fact that they have always been there for each other. I do not doubt any ones love, thus that is not my place but like I said I am also going through the same thing with my friends.
We have talked about it over and over again he has promised that he would be with her after he leaves his wife, but then other times when we talk about it, we both feel that they might be confusing our deep friendship for the right love.
I have advised them both that it would probably not work out! To become one at this point do far in from a friendship would only jeopardize what they already have. In saying that is the wrong time, I feel that this completely true; I believe that if their friendship has not crossed that boundary before, their time has already probably come and went without them even realizing it.
I hope this make sense to you and I hope it helps you out
