being away from a luved one... wud u even consider it?

Canada
July 14, 2007 10:44pm CST
when i was single, i thought that i dont want to be married with someone who is miles and miles away from me...i cudnt imagine being away with my soon to be husband..16 mons ago.. i didnt imagine that i would be in that situation. now, my husband is here after 16 mons of being in Dubai... and i asked myself.. will i be able to bear of being away from him again? after those 16 mns that we were apart, ive experienced being away from him while pregnant. only after he had left then we knew that i was. i gave birth without him by my side... it was hard, ryt? what cud be harder, i have 2 kids.. one 8 mns old, the eldest 6 years old.. my youngest barely 2 mons when her big sister got a measle. i got one my side sick and has high fever and the other who i cradled in my arms crying...i thought i cud never get through that experience. but here i am, with God's help.. am still standing.. but being away from him for the second time...i just hope i can still manage... then i asked you this question... wud u even consider it?
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• Philippines
15 Jul 07
Well,perhaps he's doing it for the future of your family.But I pity those kids :(
• Canada
17 Jul 07
hi...well.. its just a harsh reality that we have to sacrifice for the kids future... i just hope i will be enough to see to it that our kids will grow as normal as other kids... but no worries.. my husband dont want to be away for good...
@Zelmarq (12585)
• Cebu City, Philippines
15 Jul 07
Well, I know you can really make it the second time around. You know he is doing this for the future of the family. Its easier said than done but I pray that you will make it with the support of people around who cares for.
• Canada
17 Jul 07
thanks for your very encouraging words... ya ur rights its for our family's future... thanks again.