Why do people cheat ??

India
July 15, 2007 6:20am CST
If 2 people are in a relationship and all is going well overall. They make plans for the future, they have fun together, the love making the best it has ever been for the cheater, communication is good, everything like I said is going good, WHY would they take a chance to ruin it all and lose that person they say they love? I know men and women usually cheat for different reasons. I believe for men it is more physical usually but would a woman if everything is good in the relationsip? I am trying to understand this so I am looking for some actually possibilities, Any thoughts? Thanks
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• Philippines
15 Jul 07
There are different reasons why people cheat. Some say that they are not happy anymore with their partner, some say due to time and worst, others will say that "I did not cheat in you totally, I just TASTE other recipe" OMG!
• India
15 Jul 07
Oh tasting other recipe is infact an another name of cheating..
• Philippines
15 Jul 07
well for guys it's not. because for them cheating is when you choose to be with someone else than being with you...
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• India
15 Jul 07
Oh yes I agree with you here
@rakhii (1302)
• India
15 Jul 07
When people really dont understand the meaning of true relationship and the happiness they have in their life, they tend to cheat. When people have a tendency of wanting more and more, they cheat. When people are not satisfied with what they have, they tend to cheat. There may be many more such reasons to cheat, but I think these are the most common.
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@subathra (3519)
• India
15 Jul 07
Cheating arises between a well proceeded relationship can occur because of the following: failure of understanding, ego clashes, illegal affair there are cases of deliberate cheatings too where one partner takes vengence of other, some play with the feelings of other like saddist, some tells their family situation will not recognise their love and escape from the relationship. But when there is true love between the two i think one cant cheat the other for any of the above reasons.
@rb200406 (1824)
• India
15 Aug 07
Most of the woman cheat even if they have everything good because they get bored.Boredom is one of the most imp & real reason why many of them go for anaother relationship.They cannot control there physical eagerness & they want change.Apart from this if there is naything lagging in a relationhip thane also woman cheat.
@asahibza (388)
• Canada
15 Jul 07
Mostly they cheat for personal reasons like money, fraud, affairs, marriage, kids, qualifications etc.