She is in love with you, and you aren't in love with her!

Netherlands
July 16, 2007 5:45am CST
How would you respond? Suddenly someone you like as a person sends you letters and sms like she is madly in love with you. You call her up and tell her you don't like that and then she hangs up the phone, angry and hurt. I didn't do a thing. I think it is some kind of emotional manipulation and it has nothing to do with love at all.
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yamskee
@yamskee (827)
• Philippines
16 Jul 07
if ill be the guy. ill tell her what i feel. tell her staight that youre not inlove with her its better than making her a fool in believing that there is a possibility that you are in love with her.
Morganite
@Morganite (36)
• Netherlands
16 Jul 07
I tried to tell her that I didn't like it that she called me six times and sending me sms. Then she hang up. End of story. But she is a college, I will see her tomorrow, and I feel uneasy
yamskee
@yamskee (827)
• Philippines
17 Jul 07
see thats the problem of keeping it to yourself, if cant tell it straight to her then ask somebody who will tell her that. if you wont tell her what you really feel about her, she wont stop bothering you.
JoyceP2007
@JoyceP2007 (230)
• United States
16 Jul 07
Love is accepting the other person. She was probably really hurt and just reacting poorly. I'd give her time to get over it and try to be friends again.
Morganite
@Morganite (36)
• Netherlands
16 Jul 07
Could be, but if love is accepting, then you also accept denial. I am not the one in love. I just like her in the way of, would be fun to have a drink someday or go to the theater, nothing more. I don't really know her at al. We aren't even friends yet, for me being friends takes years.
jolope
@jolope (987)
• Philippines
16 Jul 07
i think that its normal to feel hurt about not reciprocating that love.. but if you gave her the idea that you like her..then i think that you have some serious problem.. are you both girls?? that really is a difficult problem..
Morganite
@Morganite (36)
• Netherlands
16 Jul 07
That's the point you know. She is a woman too, so I really didn't see it coming. I don't mind a lesbian, but she doesn't even know what she is.
woody5_16
@woody5_16 (171)
• Egypt
16 Jul 07
you must tell her that you love her but as your sister and you wish to have sister like her
Morganite
@Morganite (36)
• Netherlands
16 Jul 07
No I wont. I do have to nice sisters and I like them better.
ctiu80
@ctiu80 (216)
• Philippines
16 Jul 07
if the incident happen to me i wouldn't do anything. why, because if you call him up it would break his heart. That is something or least i can do for him. Unless if he is very irritating.. that's the time i would confront him. Actually it would depend on the scenerio. If he just txt me or wrote me a letter i wouldn't do anything. if he confront me i would tell him the truth. =)
killer_r
@killer_r (42)
• Indonesia
14 May 08
Well, just let her do anything she want, but if she irritates, maybe it's better to tell her that we're busy or we want to take or rest or some other reason. Call her and reject her should be the last solution, in my opinion. Maybe talking to her, told her that we should be friend is a better way..
rimsha
@rimsha (806)
• Pakistan
16 Jul 07
Love is very good health
subha12
@subha12 (18441)
• India
14 May 08
it is not very easy situation. actually love can't be forced on someone. that person must understand that when she loves you, its not you whjo are in love with. its the truth.
honeyheart
@honeyheart (31)
• Philippines
16 Jul 07
Well, talk to her seriously and tell her that she's fine as your friend only, nothing more nothing less.. But explain or talk to her in a nice way.. Or if talking to her doesn't work maybe you should keep distance..
neilanthonyte123456
@neilanthonyte123456 (70)
• Philippines
29 Jul 07
Well you better talk to her in a nice way that she could understand so you can't hurt someone. Besides you can be friends right?