"I love you"

July 18, 2007 4:49am CST
When you FIRST get romantically involved with someone, who said "I love you" first? was it you or her/him? Was it face to face, through letter or over the phone? (doesn't matter if it's over)
6 responses
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18 Jul 07
Well at the time i was in a abuse relationship and had been for 8yrs 10yrs in total with the same guy since i was 12yrs old...Long time well i met someone on a online dating site and decided that if i wanted to stop the abuse i had to do something to leave so i went to meet this person face to face i had been talking to him for a while before hand. We both new we had feelings so when i got time to leave him that day as i had travel over 150 miles to see him, we both burst into tears and i just step on the train to go back to the guy that was horrible to me as i couldn't just stay there i had responsabiltaies to deal with first.. I then recieved a txt message saing I LOVE YOU and i was so shocked i justed want to turn around and go back but i couldn't....sorry so long..
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19 Jul 07
Kate, that was very romantic with sad memory(that you had to part with him on the day the "love" came out)....i can easily imagine the day... i could make a movie...lol...i hope you're with him now...
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19 Jul 07
no problem JD. I'll get You and Kate+Bf a VIP seat... he he he...
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19 Jul 07
everything you need..!..lol..
@rinkeshj (18)
• India
28 Dec 07
this was a good moment in my life. it was she who relped to my question! i wasn't to reply since i was a shy person. I asked indirectly to her that is there any person whom u like and would say yes to his perposal! she told yes! than she asked me same question! i aslo replied same! then i asked whose that person then she told my name! it was great to hear that!
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@bluishrose (2289)
• Philippines
19 Jul 07
It was my ex who said i love you first over the phone, he can't say it in person because he was so shy courting me. He even sent me letters but anonymously.
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20 Jul 07
that is one supershy boyfriend...lol..
@xiuluoelly (1224)
• China
19 Jul 07
I and my boyfriend to the day, only one said "I love you",I said, that night,the sky is beautiful.He was drunk and cuddle like a child in my arms crying,I could not help but say"I love you"
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19 Jul 07
romantic in a unique way.... Did he understood what you were saying that night? Cause if not - it'll be a waste of you to say those wonderful words...
@vicki2876 (5636)
• Canada
19 Jul 07
My boyfriend of eleven years was the one to say it first and I didn't say it back. That has gone on for several years. He has probably said it a dozen times over the years but only once did I say it. It was over the phone about 8 years into the relationship. I was away for a few days with our son who was having surgery far away from home. After the surgery I called to check on the other kids and tell them everything went okay. I was emotional (have to be tough before surgery) and it was the first time I was away from the other childern and I told him I loved him. I guess it meant a ton to him because he brings it up saying, that was when he knew how much I cared. He never was sure before that.
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20 Jul 07
it came out naturally and honestly. what else could he expect to hear but those strong words of yours. very romantic and meant a lot. hope your kids are in great shape now, Vicki. Have a nice evening!
• Indonesia
18 Jul 07
it always him. I've been get involved dor 3 times and it's always him who said that. For me, i won't say it first because i'm a girl.i don't know maybe i'm an old fashion person in this case. And always face to face. I don't appreciate if a man say it through letter or sms or email or phone or something. It has to be said directly.
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19 Jul 07
yes, a little old fashion, natural and traditional in a sense but sounds good because the guy had to be a gentleman, right?