Do you feel guilty?`
By trinihd
@trinihd (996)
United States
July 18, 2007 1:17pm CST
When you have to keep someone's secret and you both have mutual friends, don't you feel guilty that you have to keep information secret? I do...and I hate to lie outright, so I am always trying to find ways to avoid telling blatant lies. But I think it kinda sucks to have to keep secrets from one friend...friends should be able to tell each other anything, shouldn't they? And not just tell one friend and not the others. I guess it depends on the secret too...and sometimes you're closer to one friend than the other...
3 responses
@mamasan34 (6518)
• United States
19 Jul 07
It does stink to be put in the middle like that. I have been in situations like that and it doesn't always turn out so good. I always tell these people who have secrets, to keep them to themselves because I don't want to be caught in the middle or slip up and say something somewhere and mess things up.
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@mamasan34 (6518)
• United States
5 Jan 08
Thanks so much for the best response rating! I really appreciate it!
@myeganda11 (141)
• Philippines
19 Jul 07
Always weigh things first, if its necessary to share the situation to one of your common friends then why not. its a matter of how you would say it..no more no less. some friends pick you on their secret its because they believe you can handle it well and even if it comes out to other friends, it wont really be an issue. Its always how it is said..if its for the better or with malicious intent.
@Tom728 (175)
• United States
11 Oct 09
People have to watch what they say to others. Just because you think you know someone doesn't mean you really do. Alot of people do things because of image and act different around people they feel they can let loose with. It is hard when you open up to someone who just isn't on that level.
