Peeping Toms ????

Hello Calais! I am a big Peeping Tom, Calais, rather quite an established one! I started this after marriage and the only lady I have done this to, happens to be my wife!:-) No other lady ever have had this privilege in my entire life. We haven't been a victim of a peeping tom though, except for one young girl in our neighbors which didn't become a problem and she was corrected before any serious issue rather any issue what so ever. It was kind of weird for me to know that as I always thought that it's a male phenomenon. (I had to look this word up in dictionary as I am not a native speaker, thanks for adding to my vocabulary:-) and I don't know if my response was out of the way!?)

Yes, peeping tom is great problem. I have not been its victim. I dislike being a peeping tom...but if something is visible to me..without any efforts...I enjoy watching that.

not that I know of. I was always worried about it when I was younger though, always checking the windows, I dont know why. probably becuase it was on the news a lot when I was younger.

I've never been a peeping tom or as far as I am aware been a victim of a peeping tom although both my kids had a fascination with my boobs (Niamh still does) and used to pull down my top when we were out and about! Once I didn't have a bra on and we were in the middle of a shopping mall - I was so embarrased and have always worn a bra ever since! xxx

I'm peepin' you right now, Calais. Look out the window....

Not been a victim but I hate those peeping toms are annoying in the sense that its not right to do so. It's invasion of privacy. That's why when I'm in a public place, fitting room for instance I do make sure that somebody is with me. Just can't imagine if somebody would peep in me. I'm sure I'll be devastated.

Yes, I do remember an experience when I was in my first year of taching. We lived in small teacher flats, & fortunately I was sharing with anothger twacher. There had been reports of a weido hanging around peopoles homes, windows, behind bushes, etc & exposing himself. One night I came home after a meeting, parked the car only metres from the front door, got out, & immediately heard a rustling in a nearby bush. Out rushed a man, crouching & he ran off, as I was shouting out to my flatmate. This ocured a few times around our flats. Another time when I was teaching ai a larger town, my housemate was followed home at night. She got me to look out the front window, & there was aman hiding behind our hedge. As he was making no effort to leave, I called the Police.

Oh, this gives me the creeps! Peeping Toms have always been one of my biggest fears. I have to make sure the curtains are totally shut when I go to bed. I'd freak if I woke up or looked out at anytime really to see someone staring in at me. I'd freak especially at night though. I've never had this happen, so that's not where my fear comes from. My cousin had it happen once when I was little and I've been afraid of it every since!

i have been subjected to a few peeping toms before. back in university days, when i was staying with my sister's family, i caught my brother-in-law's nephew red-handed, once when i was having a bath and the other one when i was taking a nap in my room. i immediately told my brother-in-law of both incidents, and his nephew didn't try to deny it because it seems that there was another girl before me who experienced the same before. the nephew was sent to another relative's house because of the incident. peeping toms engaged in something like vouyerism (i don't know if i got the spelling wrong) in my book. it would seem that they have a different kind of thrill doing that. for me it's kind of psycho somewhat.

i'm not a peeping tom and i have never been inclined to do that even when i was younger. i guess i didn't have friends who were bad influences. i regard peeping toms as people who have nothing better to do with their own life that they just want to look at other people and invade their privacy.