new relationship after marriage gone bad

United States
July 18, 2007 9:31pm CST
I have had two marriages in both of them my husbands have cheated the first one walked out on me and the kids when they was 1 year old and 3 months old He said he loved me gave me a kiss said see you soon and that was the last I saw him. My second was a truck driver not at first but after 7 years of marriage was cleaning his truck for him one time as I always did and found his notbook contain a list of truck stops and the girls name at each Now I am with another one day I love him the next Im telling him to leave I love him I hate him I dont want to deal with him when hes mad I cant deal with any bimbs in the relationship and I hate for him to tell me what to do or how to do it I want to do it myself Does anyone else have these feelings or is it just me
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@kbkbooks (7022)
• Canada
19 Jul 07
Like the person above, I tend to say men are pigs, and then I remember that is an insult to pigs. My present husband (since 2003) is very faithful in actuality, but his grown kids and my teen boys all see quite clearly that his eyes wander. He never, since between my two boys, my stepson and my hubby I am quite outnumbered in terms of gender, I find I have to either laugh with them or just feel bad about it. I have never met a man whose eyes didn't wander, to be honest. Faithful perhaps but they never stop looking. I hope at some point you find someone who loves you and someone you can trust, and I hope they are the same person.
• United States
29 Jul 07
Well I think guys eyes wonder all the time Its when the hands and body follows that bothers me Just think if his eyes wonder and he keeps coming back to you he must real think your great and truely love you
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@kbkbooks (7022)
• Canada
29 Jul 07
Thank you. I need that encouragement today.
@bowtieguy (5915)
• United States
3 Sep 07
After my wife left me, I have always found it hard to sistain a lasting relationship since I am too afraid I will get hurt again.
@rimsha (806)
• Pakistan
19 Jul 07
May be its just your experience. It totally depend on you that how you deal