my partner and i,no one want to giave way,and i feel sad
By nikko84111
@nikko84111 (368)
China
July 18, 2007 9:48pm CST
no one will give way,actually nothing happened,
but i feel a little angry,because he send the message to me slowly~
so, i refuse to respond his message~
and then he is angry too, he fall asleep and ignore me~
so, i feel upset for his ignoring, i think he should say sorry to me,but he have not~
and i feel sad all the night~
and i am hard to fall asleep and i am going to cry~
there is the rub~
although there is nothing happened,but the situation is not good
until now, we still pretend to ignore each other~
it make me feel bad and sad~
what should i do?
5 responses
@chabella1 (131)
• United States
19 Jul 07
hi nikko84111
i am sorry but that is love to you so you guys have to try to see each other or your hearth won't work properly and your brain so next thing its to move in togher, maybe if you been toguether for a long time then that'll be the best thing to see each other more.
sorry nikko i wish i could help you better
@nikko84111 (368)
• China
20 Jul 07
hi~chabella
you are so sweet~
i wish i ca be better or i can think him less~
but i miss him so much~~
sometime i feel sad~
@chabella1 (131)
• United States
21 Jul 07
hello nikko84111
how is your heart it's better or not
i have a new idea i did this when i was younger because i had to move in to the us with my dad so anyway, i took a picture of my mom and i made it into a big poster and i use to kiss the poster everyday i know it sounds silly but back then it work.
@fredgame (1260)
• China
12 Sep 07
this indicates that both of you have pride and you feel so hard to let off to the other. i think you feel it more as you've shown it in your wrting.
i think you shouldn't let him say sorry before you let him know how you feel so bad when he ignores you in bed. let him know you don't have any bad intentions and you'll feel very happy if he handles you as his own everywhere in the world and you'll see his reactions.
it seems he feels he's the head and you know how hard it's for some men to give in to a woman. i think he'll reconsider himselve and submit to you as a partner and show love for you more than before. good luck.
don't feel destressed.
@nikko84111 (368)
• China
15 Sep 07
yes
it is true
it is too hard to give in
both of us
but i think love is every thing and we can get through it
thanx for your suggestion
u are so sweet
@marinarovi (1318)
• Argentina
22 Jul 07
I think you should try to talk to him, openly, and make him understand that this situation bothers you, even if nothing in particular happened but you feel sad all the same.
And see what comes from there...
@nikko84111 (368)
• China
24 Jul 07
yes~
i think i will communicate more and more with him~
thanx for your response~
wish you luck~
@nikko84111 (368)
• China
19 Jul 07
yes ````sorry, i feel it is vague too~
i will try to specific~
the begining is that i blame him ignore me sometime
i feel that he focus on his stuff and didn't care me~
so i feel upset ~~
i want to see him , i ask him to spend more time to be me ~
i miss him~
but he make me feel he don't care me~
that is the point~
can you get the meaning?
@chabella1 (131)
• United States
19 Jul 07
well sweetie first of all you have to tell us what happen between you two, but i will answer your ? even if i'm not 100% sure, it's silly not to talk to each other i did that with my husband and then i realize how silly that is it does not matter what happen the best thing is to sit him down and talk and if that does not work post a not on the cabinet mirror saying in this house there is going to be some action with you or without you ok.
@nikko84111 (368)
• China
19 Jul 07
exactly~
he live in school and i am live with a girl ~
i am working, he is a student ~
we can not meet every day~
so sometimes i feel sad when i can meet him~
i will miss him so much~
