What do you do after a broken heart?? How do you heal yourself from it??
By livvy
@livvy092002 (1033)
Philippines
July 19, 2007 1:14am CST
Of course, it hurts.. so i really cry a lot after a broken heart.. but i cry in private, i don't let other people see that i am hurting.. but i really do cry so much i think just to get it all out of my system, if possible.lolz.
But after that i go out with my friends a lot, my friends are my major consolers.. and we do a lot of activities like doing sports, watching movies, shopping, or if money's sufficient.. we travel out of the city...
Well, time heals all wounds as they say.. and of course, by focusing on other things, by being busy just to keep your mind out of the hurtful experiences.. i get by. :)
3 responses
@carol_m (709)
• Philippines
19 Jul 07
Yes it hurts..and I cried. But not for long. I don't prolong my agony brought about by a break up. Life goes on..he's not the only guy in this world. Surrounded by my friends, getting myself busy with work, and lots of parties helped me survive the pain.
@nutea_anin (281)
• Indonesia
19 Jul 07
it happend around 6 years ago.He was my senior but different major.When first months we got involved almost all of our friends knew it and said that we're meant together.But after 5 months finally i found that he cheated on me. He had an affair with other student who's also in the same faculty with us. They're getting close because they're in the same community.They like to climb mountain. Because of that finally they decide to get along together. By the time they got involved, this men was still my boyf.The most craziest thing they've done was they're dare to "go public" in front of our friends! Before my friends told me about this one,i already found it out by myself. I don't how but i just knew it. Then i said to him to leave me imeediately and i don't want to accept his apologize. for me there's nothing to be apoligized. After our big fight, the next day i didn't go to college for 3 days.that days i stayed at home. First day i cried a lot and a lot untill i don't want to eat. just sleep and cry and think! eventhough i didn't know what was i thinking. 2nd day i told my parents bout it. they only said that i shouldn't have cry like that.i should be strong. 3rd day i try to heal myself by calling all of my friends hours.the next day i went back to college i tried to smile and act like nothing happend and i kept telling myself that he's the one who's losing me, not me! it's work!
@livvy092002 (1033)
• Philippines
20 Jul 07
That's a sad story nutea_anin.. but surely it was a success in the end! Believe it.. it is true that he's the one who's losing you and not the other way around! Go, girl! You are worth someone better than that guy! Thank you for sharing your story with me..
@chenee08 (591)
• Philippines
20 Jul 07
its been exactly 3yrs now since the one i loved broke my hart. the healing process is very long. it took me 2 and half years to get healed.thanks for the help of my friends coz they always made me smile, everytime i'm with them all those superfluous feeling was gone, though there are times at night i cried. and i spend lot of time playing ragnarok. i really agree with that saying " TIME HEAL ALL WOUNDS" though its quite long. i thik its worth it.
