what would you do if you caught your wife cheating on you?

Well considering I am the wife if I caught my husband cheating I would very disapointed and extremily hurt. Dont know if I could even ever trust him after that. I wouldent ask for a divorce but I would ask for a seperation and to go to counseling to see if we could work things out and find out what caused him to cheat in the firstplace. Then if with the help of counseling we find that we cant work things out then I will go ahead with a divorce.