Do you believe when man marries a woman (vice a versa too), her/his romance ends

@ssh123 (31096)
India
July 20, 2007 3:15am CST
For most people romance is only pre-marital affair. They can now start writing complaints or sweet memories in the diary and the history begins.
11 responses
@lynboobsy11 (11345)
• Philippines
20 Jul 07
Yes, maybe coz I'm a woman this is only my thought about that. Maybe yes because some men are adventurous on their love affair with different girls and If they got married they are not allowed to cheat and they must romance only with the girl they marry. and this there romance ends.
@ssh123 (31096)
• India
20 Jul 07
Thank you very much for free, frank expression of bare truth. Thanks for the response.
@lynboobsy11 (11345)
• Philippines
20 Jul 07
Your very welcome my friend.
@ssh123 (31096)
• India
20 Jul 07
Your response has been given BR
@williamjisir (22900)
• China
13 Aug 07
To me, it is yes. We had more romantic moments before getting married, but not after being married. We have so many things to do for our married life. I hope that yours is still a very romantic one.
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@ssh123 (31096)
• India
15 Aug 07
If I say yes, then I am telling y ou a lie. I am in the same boat as you and I have a feeling majority have the same feeling. But some say it and some hide it and a few tell utter lies saying romance begin after marriage!!
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• China
15 Aug 07
Smiling. We are in the same boats. Everyone may have a different situation from the others. But I agree with you that in most cases, romance will be gradually gone as they have so much to do after getting married. Thanks for your discussion, ssh.
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@ssh123 (31096)
• India
22 Aug 07
You are most welcome. Perfect frame of mind.
@touchnshine (2821)
• India
22 Aug 07
Hello friend I have seen many people involving in relationships with other person after marriage .. Most of them are men obviously .. I have not seen many womens cheating their husbands like this .. I have found the wifes of the man's who are cheating very pretty and beautiful and the thought comes to my mind when they are having such a beautiful wife .. why on earth they need to cheat ?? May be these type of man's need something extra or their charm is simply ended up after marrying the girl .. Some questions will still remain questions for me.
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@ssh123 (31096)
• India
23 Aug 07
I read your response with great interest. Thanks for nice points suggested. It is better to have peace of mind than getting answerss for unanswered questions. Have a nice day.
• India
23 Aug 07
Well yes you are right .. We should not think so much about the questions for which we are not able to get the answers and leave this on time and fate :)
@anjoks (2084)
• Philippines
20 Jul 07
Thats a no for me. . Thats where romance starts actually. If both individuals truly love each other then romance never ends, you know what em sayin? Take care now. (",)
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@ssh123 (31096)
• India
20 Jul 07
Thank you very much for your frank expression and thanks for the response.
@anjoks (2084)
• Philippines
20 Jul 07
No prob. Anytime my friend. (",)
@andyliuzn (1029)
• Guangzhou, China
26 Aug 07
Hi SSH, Well, I don't belive that the romance will end after they get married. It might just turn into other things, say, they are expressing the romance in other ways. I do hope me and my girl could still maintian the romance after we get married, though there is no much roomance between us in our last pass 6 years relationship.:) You know, I am not that a romantic guy but just love her without reason sometimes. B.rgds, Andy
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@ssh123 (31096)
• India
26 Aug 07
Should I not thank you for your frank expression? I really enjoyed reading your response Thanks and all the best in your endeavours.
@secretbear (19463)
• Philippines
22 Aug 07
I don't think romance has to end after marriage. if a man and woman truly loves each other, then I don't see any reason why romance has to end. getting married is just one way to show your partner that you love him/her. if there are things about each other that they only discover after marriage and they find it unlikeable, if they truly love each other they will accept these things. romance only stops if they fall out of love. ^__^
@ssh123 (31096)
• India
22 Aug 07
Very true and down to the point. Thanks for your interesting response. Have a nice day.
• China
19 Aug 07
for most of chinese people , marrige means romance end ,many chinese men make great effort to capture a girl's love ,they send beatiful flowers ,do many moving things ....but after married ,they all forget what they have done before , women became a main labor in a family,and men make money outside ,they think romance is a luxury for a common family.
@ssh123 (31096)
• India
20 Aug 07
Why blame your countrymen. It is same all over the world. To be romantic , one need not spend fortune. If both have inclinations, romance is always there.
@rouwel23 (1353)
• Philippines
18 Aug 07
romance is a continuous process and should not end during marriage.
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@ssh123 (31096)
• India
18 Aug 07
I think the romance will continue, but due to struggle in life (some less and some more), the intensity of romance varies.
• India
15 Aug 07
No.there is no end to romance after marriage rather romances increases, but yes the thrill becomes less may be because of owenership.
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@ssh123 (31096)
• India
17 Aug 07
Very well said. Thanks and have a nice day.
• India
20 Jul 07
No i dont belive these as all men n women are not same a si think my n feance we will not end up our romance after marry asi seen many of my relative they still have love n romance in them thought they fight but still i find lov en romance in them so i dont belive on these
@ssh123 (31096)
• India
20 Jul 07
That is wonderful to hear and very refreshing too. Thanks for your response.
@rladiga00 (1166)
• India
20 Jul 07
Why negative thinking. Those who have already romanced and then married, may be for them it is starting of history. For those who are married, romance begins.
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@ssh123 (31096)
• India
20 Jul 07
Yes you are right. Thanks for your intereting response.