Do you believe when man marries a woman (vice a versa too), her/his romance ends
July 20, 2007 3:15am CST
For most people romance is only pre-marital affair. They can now start writing complaints or sweet memories in the diary and the history begins.
20 Jul 07
Yes, maybe coz I'm a woman this is only my thought about that. Maybe yes because some men are adventurous on their love affair with different girls and If they got married they are not allowed to cheat and they must romance only with the girl they marry. and this there romance ends.
15 Aug 07
Smiling. We are in the same boats. Everyone may have a different situation from the others. But I agree with you that in most cases, romance will be gradually gone as they have so much to do after getting married. Thanks for your discussion, ssh.
22 Aug 07
Hello friend I have seen many people involving in relationships with other person after marriage .. Most of them are men obviously .. I have not seen many womens cheating their husbands like this .. I have found the wifes of the man's who are cheating very pretty and beautiful and the thought comes to my mind when they are having such a beautiful wife .. why on earth they need to cheat ?? May be these type of man's need something extra or their charm is simply ended up after marrying the girl .. Some questions will still remain questions for me.
• Guangzhou, China
26 Aug 07
Hi SSH, Well, I don't belive that the romance will end after they get married. It might just turn into other things, say, they are expressing the romance in other ways. I do hope me and my girl could still maintian the romance after we get married, though there is no much roomance between us in our last pass 6 years relationship.:) You know, I am not that a romantic guy but just love her without reason sometimes. B.rgds, Andy
22 Aug 07
I don't think romance has to end after marriage. if a man and woman truly loves each other, then I don't see any reason why romance has to end. getting married is just one way to show your partner that you love him/her. if there are things about each other that they only discover after marriage and they find it unlikeable, if they truly love each other they will accept these things. romance only stops if they fall out of love. ^__^
19 Aug 07
for most of chinese people , marrige means romance end ,many chinese men make great effort to capture a girl's love ,they send beatiful flowers ,do many moving things ....but after married ,they all forget what they have done before , women became a main labor in a family,and men make money outside ,they think romance is a luxury for a common family.
20 Jul 07
No i dont belive these as all men n women are not same a si think my n feance we will not end up our romance after marry asi seen many of my relative they still have love n romance in them thought they fight but still i find lov en romance in them so i dont belive on these