Why did my first love come back after 25 years ?
July 20, 2007 6:06am CST
I fell in love with a girl First love, we both never spoke exchanged look every day, spoke no words but only action, never missed a single day, sometimes at midnight too... only action, we knew each other well by almost a year, then one more year passed. every one knew that we were in love. one day she is gone. I cry , search,.....gone...... another girls loves me Mad. so I marry her, after 25 years my first love becomes the friend of my wife and walks into my house and says hai.............its real it happened...I said my first hai to her and she had dinner with her children and she is gone again......with a bye. Tell me what would be her feelings, and why would she want to do this?
21 Jul 07
Did she have a husband, if she is still single, and if she has a feelings for you still, she will be broken hearted by now, maybe she is smiling in the outside by crying in the inside. Although, she will feel happy that you found your love, but on the other side, felt bad for herself because she don't have you and you are attached and have responsibility. How come she knows your wife in the first place? what is her explanation? why are you asking why would she want to do this, how come you think it like that? Maybe she wanted to see you, you become very important to her,so she had to see you. Do you still see the love in her eyes when you met?. do you still love her? Kindly update me,kinda interested. i think she is happy for you.
21 Jul 07
let me clear your questions at first. She is married to a very rich and wealthy business man, about 5 times richer than me. secondly my wife knows that we loved each other, and she knows that its my wife, and her kids and my daughter study in the same school, my wife met her there. then she asked about me, and told that she wants to see me,so my wife brought her home as a surprise to me on my daughters birthday party.
21 Jul 07
if she really liked me she would not have gone away, I asked why would she want to see me now after all these years. I love my wife more than any women in this world, for all the pains she has taken to keep my family going. next issue, yes i see the same smile and love in her eye, which I avoided - or never gave her an opportunity to explain every thing.
20 Jul 07
Does she has any kids or husband? It is true, your love can come even after 25 years. Just the fact how you loved her and vice versa, makes you remember on the good moments, which make you feel good. It is possible that you love her and opposite, but you should understand it like past, it is over with that love, even if it is painful, you have wife (I suppose you have kids, also), so just understand that like good experience.