what are the first words you would say after making love?
By faith210
@faith210 (11224)
Philippines
July 20, 2007 11:50am CST
Do you affirm your love to your partner or do you just snore it away? Do you praise him or her or you go running towards the bathroom? Will you say it in words to confess how you feel or just hug him or her tightly? Do you say it in words how you feel at the magical moment or don't say nothing at all?
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24 responses
@Darkwing (21583)
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23 Aug 07
Quite often, I don't say a word. I just snuggle up to him with tears in my eyes, which are triggered off by the intensity of the love making and the deepness of my love. I would hasten to add that I don't make love to a person for the experience, only for the loving feeling.
Brightest Blessings.
@josan181237 (1204)
• Philippines
17 Aug 07
hi faith210! i'm not yet married so i have no experience or whatsoever. but if i'm still active on mylot after i get married then i'd be ready to answer this question again. hehe. God bless! =)
@singlepixel (2743)
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10 Sep 07
let wait...ha ha ha...i have faith in waiting...and reading..lol...cheers wonderful people!!!!
@faith210 (11224)
• Philippines
16 Jan 09
Hi ritchel! Thank you for sharing that honest and intimate moment in your life. I am so pleased to learn that he is very much after in pleasing you dear. I will give him a thumbs up for that! Thank you for your response. I really appreciate it!
Take care and have a nice day!
lovelots..faith210
@sukandar_ag (880)
• Indonesia
11 Feb 09
Hahahaha... now I can leave a comment on your post, Faith210, as I have been a new young father already!
Usually I say to my wife, "I love you..." kiss and hug her so tightly, and we smile together. Aaah... I'm still shy, you know!
(Faith210, how are you? Hope you're fine always!)
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@sukandar_ag (880)
• Indonesia
13 Feb 09
Yes, indeed... it has been a long time, Faith210! I've been off-line from myLot for about 8 months! Hahaha... busy with my wife's pregnancy, jobs, and of course now with the baby.
Thanks for your kind prayer for me and family.
Be blessed and happy, Faith210!
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@faith210 (11224)
• Philippines
12 Feb 09
Hi sukandar_ag! Oh my, it has been a long time! I am doing fine and I am so happy to learn that you are a father now! Congratulations dear friend! I really wish you more and more love and happiness for you and your family. Thanks for sharing your thoughts here and will be wishing you more blessings always.
Take care and have a great day!
lovelots..faith
@touchnshine (2821)
• India
23 Aug 07
Well I think that saying magical words after making love is much nice way then just running towards the bathroom. I guess sometimes confessing or hugging also mean a lot .. Infact I believe everyone has their own way of expressing their love but rushing to a bathroom only gives a selfish kind of feeling.
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@touchnshine (2821)
• India
29 Aug 07
Hi faith210
You are most welcome. Nice day to you as well. Take Care :)
@brand4less (1061)
• Indonesia
23 Aug 07
tissue..tissue..lolz.joking! well,mostly we just hug each other and then he will kiss my forehead and say i love you and i reply i love u back then we go to sleep!not too romantic,eh?
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@annettenasser (2992)
• Kuwait
14 Nov 07
After that, we spend time watching movie and talking anything and teasing each other. we dont sleep directly,,
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@shana123 (2095)
• India
20 Jul 08
Actually im not yet married came here just to see how much are lovable to their spouse even in words after love making... well all most all are.. well my fiance is too far away we will get married within a couple of years and i will come and share it over here the word which he is going to utter first..
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@applsofgld (2506)
• United States
11 Nov 07
I accidentally found your discussion and here it is some 4 months after you first posted it. Sorry I didn't get it when it was new. I have never answered any discussions of this nature, but this one I can. I always say I love you, because to me it is an act of love between a man and a woman. I would love for him to say it first, but he isn't a real mooshie type of person to say things like that too often. He'll say it back to me if I say it first.
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@faith210 (11224)
• Philippines
12 Nov 07
Hi applsofgld! I do believe that saying I love you always makes our partner feel much happier and secured in our relationship. It is an expression of what we feel inside. Thanks for participating in this discussion. It is alright that you found this just today and as the saying goes, It is better late than never. haha.. I feel the same way too about responding to discussions about this because i am not really comfortable in telling anyone about matters that are so very private. This is only how far I can get. haha.. Thanks again and have a nice day. Take care. :)
@im_anna (717)
• Philippines
18 Feb 09
Most of the time, we have to catch our breath first, then say "I love You" to each other, or hugs & kisses after, or we express verbally our emotion, ur cuddle up, or he'd ask me if I want water. After some time, we'd wash or take a bath.
@ailema4ever (2668)
• Finland
10 Nov 07
Oh yes, I almost always praise him first while hugging and kissing. We always hug and kiss before we go to the bathroom he he he he...and I always make sure I remember to say sweet words to him. Then after coming back from the bathroom, we hug and kiss some more and say "I love you" and "good night" and sometimes we say to each other, "You're the best" he he he...
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@darth1206 (38)
• Philippines
25 May 08
Oh S!@T! where am I? Who are you? Have we made... last nite? Ooops got to go!!!
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@Ysabel (1201)
• Philippines
10 Feb 09
it's usually, "i love you". its either he say it first or i say it first but that's the usual. its like a non verbal agreement that we both say those words. he he he 
after that, its either, "shower?" ... or "tired?"... or "you want water?"... hhmmmm.. i'm thinking fast now what other usual remarks we have! . hehehe... maybe i could add up.. "towel?"... he he he ...
after that, its either, "shower?" ... or "tired?"... or "you want water?"... hhmmmm.. i'm thinking fast now what other usual remarks we have! . hehehe... maybe i could add up.. "towel?"... he he he ...
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@faith210 (11224)
• Philippines
11 Feb 09
Hi Ysabel! It is really sweet to hear the "I love you's" after making love. It is like an affirmation of what has just transpired although we really are not oblige to say anything as we already have shown how much we do love and care for each other through the act itself. Thanks for sharing your thoughts and "towel" is really a nice touch! lol 
I appreciate your response dear!
Take care and have a great day!
lovelots..faith
I appreciate your response dear!
Take care and have a great day!
lovelots..faith
@sreejithsreenivas (10200)
• India
2 Nov 07
I always say,you are looking so beautiful,whenever i meet
her.
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@sreejithsreenivas (10200)
• India
11 Oct 07
My marriage is an arranged one.After marriage only we start loving each other.If the love is strong,then i think there is no need to say anything about love with the partner.
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@saivenkaat802003 (4823)
• India
6 Nov 07
Just a bit of affectionate smile by looking into her eyes..
It speaks Volumes..
Happy mylotting.. Take care my friend.
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@williamjisir (22819)
• China
17 Aug 07
We don't hug again after making love as we have had already before that. It is enough. Now what we need to is a shower in the bathroom to make our sweaty body comfortable in the bed for a sound sleep. The tiredness and magical moment thereafter make us have a sound sleep together.
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@faith210 (11224)
• Philippines
20 Aug 07
Hi williamjisir! Sorry it's been awhile before I got to comment on your response. Really appreciate your response though. Haha..you're right about that. Taking a shower will make a very good night rest from all that passion and love. Take care and have a nice day!
@bluishrose (2289)
• Philippines
23 Jul 07
While making love we would usually say things like i love you then after doing the deed he would normally says it again or sometimes his satisfaction. But when it comes to me i always hug him tightly and kiss him my way of expressing love and satisfaction. Sometimes he would tease me then we started laughing and doing it again lolz!
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@twinbulls1980 (104)
• United States
30 Aug 07
i usually say "i gotta pee!" and run to the bathroom. then i come back for snuggles,lol.
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