How do you know you're inlove?
By jhoana_joey
@jhoana_joey (616)
Philippines
July 20, 2007 11:49pm CST
Love is the most wonderful thing in this world. I know I'm inlove because...
a.) I'm always thinking of him
b.) I'm always longing to be with him
c.) I always miss him
d.) I'm building a castle of love in my dream still with him
e.) I can't find myself attracted to other men
f.) Feels like he is the whole world for me
g.) I do crazy things to make him happy and
h.) I ignore our differences
What about you? How do you know you're inlove?
5 responses
@vasimb (244)
• India
21 Jul 07
There are two different things. One is just infatuation and other is real love. Infatuation can occur many times in one's life but real love happens only one time in life.
Here are things which will diffrentiate love and infatuation.
Here's How:
1. Ask yourself: 'Would I be willing to let her/him go if I believed it was the best thing?'
2. Ask yourself: 'Would I feel the same way if s/he gained weight?'
3.Ask yourself: 'Am I willing to sacrifice my dreams to allow her/his dreams to come true?'
4. Ask yourself: 'Do I respect and admire her/him?'
5. Ask yourself: 'Would I feel the same way if s/he got sick?'
6. Ask yourself: 'If you two were in an argument, would you feel the same way?'
7. If you answered 'No' to any of these questions, think about why you gave that answer. Is it a lack of trust? Is it because you're afraid? Is it selfishness? Do you need more time to get to know each other?
8. If you answered 'Yes' to all of these questions, wow, you feel very strongly about this person. It sounds like you're in real love!
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@Dolcerina (3376)
• Hungary
21 Jul 07
No, if you answer "yes" for all these questions it means, that you are abnormal, and you need therapy.
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@jhoana_joey (616)
• Philippines
24 Jul 07
that was great... thanks for sharing your ideas bout love and infatuation... sometimes being inlove really can make you crazy and i also agree with Dolcerina I think I need therapy... best wishes to all...
@bluishrose (2289)
• Philippines
15 Sep 07
Well first sign for me is when i feel the so called butterflies in my stomach... then sleepless nights and lots of talking about him. And most specially when im in front of hime i get speechless.
@jhoana_joey (616)
• Philippines
17 Sep 07
Yeah me too, I often have sleepless night and most of the time I daydream. From the time I open my eyes in the morning it's him who comes in mind first and before I close my eyes at night it is still him whose on my mind. Sounds absurd, I know but that's really how I feel the last time I fell inlove. Thanks for sharing bluishrose.
@Dolcerina (3376)
• Hungary
21 Jul 07
Only a few of these points.
I am thinking a lot about him.
I want to call his mobil in each half an hour to speak to him. (of course I do not)
I feel I am a princess :D
When I am with him, I need to hold his hand.
@jhoana_joey (616)
• Philippines
24 Jul 07
i also love to hold his hand... and it feels great to be with him...thanks for sharing.
@nagatron123456 (888)
• Philippines
21 Jul 07
Some of the things you've mention and I can't look at the person straight.
@jhoana_joey (616)
• Philippines
24 Jul 07
yeah sometimes i also can't look at him straight on his eyes, specially if i'm shy...thanks for your respond...
@xmichx (109)
• Philippines
22 Jul 07
Being inlove for me is to be happy in the arms of that special someone. Different people will feel different things when they are inlove so we can't realy state how do we know we're inlove. But from the description of things here I would say your actually being posessive.
