How do you know you're inlove?
July 20, 2007 11:49pm CST
Love is the most wonderful thing in this world. I know I'm inlove because... a.) I'm always thinking of him b.) I'm always longing to be with him c.) I always miss him d.) I'm building a castle of love in my dream still with him e.) I can't find myself attracted to other men f.) Feels like he is the whole world for me g.) I do crazy things to make him happy and h.) I ignore our differences What about you? How do you know you're inlove?
21 Jul 07
There are two different things. One is just infatuation and other is real love. Infatuation can occur many times in one's life but real love happens only one time in life. Here are things which will diffrentiate love and infatuation. Here's How: 1. Ask yourself: 'Would I be willing to let her/him go if I believed it was the best thing?' 2. Ask yourself: 'Would I feel the same way if s/he gained weight?' 3.Ask yourself: 'Am I willing to sacrifice my dreams to allow her/his dreams to come true?' 4. Ask yourself: 'Do I respect and admire her/him?' 5. Ask yourself: 'Would I feel the same way if s/he got sick?' 6. Ask yourself: 'If you two were in an argument, would you feel the same way?' 7. If you answered 'No' to any of these questions, think about why you gave that answer. Is it a lack of trust? Is it because you're afraid? Is it selfishness? Do you need more time to get to know each other? 8. If you answered 'Yes' to all of these questions, wow, you feel very strongly about this person. It sounds like you're in real love!
17 Sep 07
Yeah me too, I often have sleepless night and most of the time I daydream. From the time I open my eyes in the morning it's him who comes in mind first and before I close my eyes at night it is still him whose on my mind. Sounds absurd, I know but that's really how I feel the last time I fell inlove. Thanks for sharing bluishrose.
22 Jul 07
Being inlove for me is to be happy in the arms of that special someone. Different people will feel different things when they are inlove so we can't realy state how do we know we're inlove. But from the description of things here I would say your actually being posessive.