What's the one thing you did for your spouse that touched their heart?

I tuck little love notes into my husband´s pockets when he goes off to work. Not all the time, just once in a while, so it is a surprise! The best thing I did for him was for Father´s Day. He wasn´t here for the actual day, but I traced my toddler´s hand and my newborn´s hand onto paper and had my toddler color it. Then he helped me stick pieces of bright tissue paper onto a homemade card. We pasted the handprints on top and I wrote a little note inside, saying "Happy Father´s Day, we love you, Papa. Love, Dorian and Dante." Then my toddler scribbled his own little mark in there. My husband got tears in his eyes when he received that card!

I would never pretend I had forgotten someone's birthday. I hate surprise birthday parties and making someone feel bad all day on their birthday letting them think that everyone had forgotten. That's just me though :) My husband turned 40 this year. He categorically told me that he didn't want any party and I know when he's serious or not. He said he just wanted to spend it with me. So after giving him a birthday kiss in the morning and birthday card (I was buying him a very expensive designer suit later on that week that he wanted to pick out himself) we both went off to work. I left work early and bought a helium balloon for a 40 year old and put up some decorations in our living room and bought him lots of little gifts as well as about a dozen other birthday cards from me as a surpise and when he came home from work I was waiting for him with a bottle of champagne and his surprise party for just the two of us! He really loved it and said it was a wonderful surprise. Even when people asked him about his birthday for months afterwards he said he had the best birthday ever, especially as I didn't go against his wishes and arrange a big party as he would have hated that. He often mentions it when he's in a romantic mood about how nice the surprise was :)