what will u do???
22 Jul 07
empathically, when it was me, of course you can't avoid to be angry because of what she's done wherein for sure that is another problem that has arise, but i just have to find the solution to that problem, she has to give birth to her pregnancy, and to her school? well, that's for you both to come to terms, she has this time after giving birth has to do her best if she wants to go back to school to study really well.
3 Jan 08
hats off to ur thinking... but when ur working hard to send ur sister to school, u should have responsibility of taking care for her.... see there no person without mistakes.. but reliazing the mistake and going in right path is important.. cant help if she is pregnant, but sit with her ask her waht really she wants to do now.. after all she is sister...
25 Jul 07
thank goodness this really didn't happen to me. coz i'd really be disappointed and bad tripped towards my sister. I really did consider before to take charge of my youngest sister and send her to college the moment I had a job. that was when I was about to graduate from high school. but since I entered college a bit late, she'd gone to college even before I graduated. after I graduated though and had my first work, she was still in college because she shifted and shifted courses like there was no end with her shifting. I didn't help with her schooling but I did give her money sometimes, thru my mother. we had an argument then so I changed my mind about supporting her studies. and then she got pregnant by her work-less bf and that made the gap more wide because she was still going to school then and I was so disappointed and angry with her. I lok at her and I see a burden on my mother's shoulders. and that affects me. now, she's pregnant again with her second child (and i've said before that i'd kick her azz if she had another child) and she's still a burden since she has no work and still haven't finished college. her bf though and his family supports her and her baby but its still my mother that shoulders most of the expenses. and its natural that I feel obliged to give her money sometimes. our only consolation is that her kid is funny, active, and lovable. ^__^ I'm only praying to God that the time would come soon where my mother won't have to work anymore to support anyone of us especially my lazy eldest sister and her children and instead, we'll be the ones to take care of her.