how to fight temtaption?

@mae1216 (658)
Philippines
July 22, 2007 8:21am CST
In a relationship there is always a temptation, temptation in having third party or more. How can you deal with it? I am away from my boyfriend now and I am afraid that he might be tempted to other girls or me. How do I deal with it? What is the perfect way to get away from it?
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@Lakota12 (42678)
• United States
22 Jul 07
That is a very loaded question. Men seem to stray for more fasters then girls they just cant handle theriselves well. The only thing is I can tel you is if you really love him you wont really lok at another feller and think hmm I like him maybe I want to go with him ya have tostay away from that . and as you atre young it is very hard for you all are only human and humans do weird things
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@mae1216 (658)
• Philippines
26 Jul 07
Thanks! World are weird and we don't know what will happen next but as long as I can I am doing my best to make us last.
@Lakota12 (42678)
• United States
27 Jul 07
good for you keep it up! hugs
@heartsick (832)
• Philippines
22 Jul 07
you have to trust your man.. To remain steady in a long distance relationship, a couple needs trust, patience, loyalty and constant communication.. yes it is surely difficult but both of you should willing to make sacrifices, if you really want to make it work then you have to find a way.. have a nice day!
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@mae1216 (658)
• Philippines
26 Jul 07
Trust is the main key to make a relationship last. Second is to maintain a spontaneous communication with him. I am trying my best to make all of these happen because I want our love to last.
• Philippines
27 Jul 07
good.. that's the spirit.. god bless your relationship.. :)
• India
22 Jul 07
hey.. u need to trust ur boyfriend..
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@mae1216 (658)
• Philippines
26 Jul 07
Thanks! I believe I should
@xmichx (109)
• Philippines
22 Jul 07
I believe that in order to fight temptation you must be with temptation. Like you should hang out with other people even thou you're afraid to be tempted with other guyz. So that you will get use to them and won't be tempted with it anymore. And about your BF just learn to trust him. Think positive that he will not cheat on you. Also remember to communicate with eachother every now and then...
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@mae1216 (658)
• Philippines
26 Jul 07
Hi! Thanks! I know I should give a big trust to him and I am trying to make things normal like before. I love him and I want to be with him forever.
@ky1119 (699)
• United States
22 Jul 07
I'd say if you're tempted by others, then you're not in the right relationship. I believe that if you are with the right person, then there would be no temptation to have a "third-party" or to be with someone else. I am married and there is no way that that someone else could tempt me away from my husband. I cannot even imagine thinking like that about someone else, and my husband never would either.
@mae1216 (658)
• Philippines
26 Jul 07
I am happy to hear that you have a big happy family. Thanks! I know it is right and he is the right for me so I must think about him and his love for me.
@JBrulez (663)
• Philippines
23 Jul 07
You just need to give him your complete trust on situations where he would go away.. It's how you measure how much you loves him, how you fully trust the guy.. Because if you do not trust him, the essence of love and commitment will never work on bought of you.. Just entertain yourself or make yourself busy.. But if you are really in doubt why don't you call him up and tell him you miss him.. Just relax and have faith my friend..
@mae1216 (658)
• Philippines
26 Jul 07
We do talk everyday on the net. And I think it really helps to make us strong and lessen our worries. I love him and promise to do my best to make us last.
@JBrulez (663)
• Philippines
26 Jul 07
Ok, I do hope your relationship would work out as you want it to be.. I also hope Both of yuo can find more time with each other because honestly, being together is the most powerful key to a successful relationship..gud luck my friend..(:
@raijin (10371)
• Philippines
3 Aug 07
Prayer and power of the mind, also try to think of your loved ones who'll get affected by the actions that you'll make. I always believe that praying helps, as it provides us clear mind to think of the consequences. I also think of it many times, before doing whatever actions I will take.